You’re not the only one lying awake wondering if your decisions are helping or hurting.

This episode is a love letter to the hidden network of heart-led leaders doing the work behind the scenes - the ones whose leadership is steady, grounded, and deeply felt even when it’s not loud.

Cara invites you to explore the power of quiet community: the invisible web of influence built through presence, not performance. Together, we’ll unpack what it means to lead with calm, build trust in uncertain times, and create cultures of psychological safety where people feel seen and supported.

You’ll be reminded that quiet doesn’t mean small - it means intentional. And that your leadership, even when unseen, is shaping lives more than you know.

If you’re ready to lead with more clarity, compassion, and confidence, visit TutumLeadershipCoaching.com and click “Let’s Connect” to schedule a conversation with Cara. You don’t have to lead alone - and you don’t have to lead loud to make an impact.

💭 Reflection Prompts for Listeners

• Who in your world embodies quiet leadership? What can you learn from the way they move through challenge?
• When have you underestimated your own influence because it didn’t look “loud enough”?
• How might you honor your quiet leadership this week—through rest, boundaries, or a small act of connection?

🔗 Connect with Cara

• Website: www.tutumleadershipcoaching.com

• LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/caranance

• Instagram: @tutumleadershipcoaching

Were you born to lead - or just the one who couldn’t walk away?

In this episode of Tutum Talk, Cara Nance challenges the myth that real leaders are “naturals” who never doubt, struggle, or fail. Together, we explore what it really means to lead from truth instead of performance - and why vulnerability isn’t weakness, but a living example of courage.

You’ll discover how authentic leadership invites trust, strengthens teams, and creates cultures where people feel safe to show up as their full selves.

Because the best leaders aren’t born - they’re becoming.

🎧 Tune in for a grounded conversation about the invisible labor of leadership, the power of authenticity, and how modeling vulnerability transforms teams from the inside out.

💬 Key Takeaways

• Leadership isn’t about being natural - it’s about being authentic.
• The emotional and invisible labor of leadership deserves to be recognized and honored.
• Vulnerability is strength; it’s the foundation of psychological safety and trust.
• Teams thrive when leaders model honesty, not perfection.
• True leadership is less about control and more about connection.

🪞 Reflective Prompt for Listeners

Where in your leadership are you performing instead of connecting?
What might shift if you allowed your true self to take the lead?

💡 Shareable Quote

If this episode resonated with you, share it with another leader who might need this reminder: authenticity isn’t the opposite of strength - it is strength. To explore strengths-based leadership coaching or team retreats, visit tutumleadershipcoaching.com and click “Let’s Connect.”

Every leader experiences moments when confidence feels far away - the pause before you speak, the hesitation before you act, the question that stirs up doubt. In this episode, Cara Nance unpacks what confidence really means in leadership, and how to rebuild it from the inside out.

Rather than chasing confidence as a fixed state, Cara invites you to see it as a relationship with yourself - one built through honesty, recovery, and trust.

Through reflective storytelling, gentle guidance, and a strengths-based lens, this episode offers a grounded path back to self-trust and presence in your leadership.

💡 In This Episode:

• The Myth of Effortless Confidence - why no one actually feels 100% sure all the time
• Small Brave Moments - how courage grows in quiet, everyday choices
• Why Confidence Feels Unnatural at First - the stretch that signals growth, not failure
• Trust Before Confidence - a reframe that changes everything
• A Strengths-Based Approach - how knowing your CliftonStrengths® helps you lead like you

🪴 Reflection Prompt

Confidence doesn’t always announce itself.
Sometimes it whispers: keep going.

🤝 Want to Go Deeper?

If this conversation resonated with you and you’d like more support in building confidence and clarity as a leader, click the “Let’s Connect” button at tutumleadershipcoaching.com to schedule time with Cara. Together, you’ll explore how to lead from your strengths - and trust yourself in the moments that matter most.

🔗 Connect with Cara

• Website: tutumleadershipcoaching.com

• LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/caranance

• Coaching: Explore 1:1 and team coaching rooted in trust, clarity, and strengths-based leadership.

What if leadership wasn’t about perfection - but about presence?

In this reflective episode, Cara invites you to release the pressure of performance and rediscover your natural influence. You’ll explore what happens when authenticity becomes your leadership strategy - and how your energy, tone, and self-trust shape every room you walk into.

Through real coaching stories and quiet moments of reflection, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize the “mask” of performance many leaders wear - and why it’s so draining
• Build trust through honesty, not heroics
• Bring presence (not perfection) into your next meeting or conversation
• Understand how your CliftonStrengths© themes shape your natural influence
• Create psychological safety by leading with authenticity and groundedness

Because when you lead from who you are, not who you think you should be - your influence becomes effortless.

✨ Notable Quotes:

“Influence isn’t built on image - it’s built on trust.”

“Your authenticity gives others permission to exhale.”

“Your presence is your power.”

🌿 Reflection Prompt:

Where in your leadership might you be performing instead of connecting?
What shifts when you let presence - not perfection - take the lead?

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

• Gallup CliftonStrengths® framework (Name it. Claim it. Aim it.)
• Tutum Leadership Coaching: www.tutumleadershipcoaching.com
• Connect with Cara on LinkedIn

💛 If you enjoyed this episode:

• Follow or subscribe to Tutum Talk for new episodes on authentic leadership and team connection.
• Share this episode with someone learning to lead in real life - not the polished version, but the human one.
• Leave a short review to help others discover Tutum Talk.

When you step into leadership without a roadmap, it’s easy to feel lost, lonely, and unsure if you’re doing it right.

In this episode of Tutum Talk, Gallup-Certified Coach and founder of Tutum Leadership Coaching, Cara Nance, explores what it means to lead without a clear path - and how to find your footing when you’ve been handed responsibility without real preparation.

You’ll learn why so many new and seasoned leaders alike feel stuck in survival mode, and how unclear expectations and inherited dysfunction quietly drain trust and morale. Cara shares real stories, reflective questions, and practical ways to begin leading with more presence and less pressure - even when you don’t have all the answers.

💭 In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The hidden emotional cost of unclear expectations
• Why “readiness” is a myth - and how real growth happens in motion
• How to rebuild trust and calm by leading with curiosity, not control
• Three reflective questions to help you realign your leadership journey

Whether you’re a new leader learning as you go, or a seasoned one rebuilding after burnout, this episode is your reminder:
You don’t need the whole map to lead well - just the courage to take the next right step.

If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to follow, rate, and review Tutum Talk wherever you listen.
It helps more leaders find this community - and reminds them they’re not alone on the journey.

Visit tutumleadershipcoaching.com to learn more about leadership coaching, retreats, and team experiences that bring calm to chaos and connection to teams.

Welcome to the first full episode of Tutum Talk with Cara Nance - a space for reflective leaders who care deeply, lead with heart, and sometimes wonder if they’re doing it right.

In “You’re Not Broken - You’re Becoming,” Cara explores the quiet ache of leadership doubt - that moment when you question your confidence or your capacity - and reframes it as an essential part of your growth.

You’ll learn how to:

• Recognize doubt as feedback, not failure.
• Reconnect with yourself in seasons of uncertainty.
• Replace perfectionism with presence.
• Lead from wholeness instead of depletion.
• Trust the process of becoming - even when it feels messy.

This episode is an invitation to pause, breathe, and remember that every leader is a work in progress - and that your uncertainty might actually be proof of your evolution.

Reflection Question:

💬 Key Takeaways

• Doubt isn’t disconnection - it’s direction.
• Growth often feels like discomfort before it feels like clarity.
• Real leadership isn’t about having it all together - it’s about staying open, curious, and grounded through change.
• You can’t pour from an empty well. Leading yourself first creates the trust and stability your team needs.

🔗 Connect with Cara

• 🌐 TutumLeadershipCoaching.com
• 💌 Subscribe to the Tutum Ttimes newsletter for monthly reflections and leadership tools.
• 📸 Follow on LinkedIn
  and Instagram (@tutumleadershipcoaching)
• 🎧 Subscribe to Tutum Talk wherever you listen to podcasts.

What if leadership doesn’t start with a title… but with a question?

In this trailer episode, Cara Nance - leadership coach, former educator, and founder of Tutum Leadership Coaching - introduces the heart behind Tutum Talk.

You’ll hear why this podcast was born, what “leadership is influence” truly means, and how real leadership begins not in the boardroom… but in the mirror.

Through personal story, gentle truth-telling, and a calm invitation to reconnect with your own power, Cara invites you into a new kind of leadership - one rooted in presence, healing, and humanity.

Whether you’re burned out, stepping into new responsibility, or simply craving space to reflect… you belong here.

Because together, we’re building a world where leadership feels a little more human… and a lot more tūtum.

🔑 In This Episode

• Why influence - not title - defines true leadership
• How Cara’s 20+ year career in education led to coaching
• The role of healing in self-leadership
• Why your leadership journey must start with knowing (and nourishing) yourself
• The meaning behind the name Tutum
• An invitation to slow down, reflect, and lead from a deeper place

🧭 Take What You Need

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve been feeling stretched thin or quietly doubting your leadership
• You believe in growth but crave gentleness along the way
• You want to lead others without losing yourself in the process
• You know you have influence… and want to use it with intention

💌 Stay Connected

If this message resonates with you, let’s stay in the conversation.
👉 Subscribe, rate, and follow Tutum Talk wherever you listen.
✨ You can also visit TutumLeadershipCoaching.com
and click Let’s Connect to schedule a conversation with Cara.