How many times have you heard, "But no one else in this house cares about the mess"???

This episode discusses the exact path out of this problem.

It all hinges on the skill of High Profit Thinking, and in this episode, you'll get examples of how this helps you, both at home and at work.

You'll also see the off-the-charts value of taking things up a notch, and operating your home with a standard for order and cleanliness that some might call, "ridiculously high."

The moral of that discussion? When you create a home that's sparkling clean and clutter-free. It's not just about how that makes you feel--although that's one benefit.

It's also about what happens in your mind, and your career, when your home is maintained and operates at a standard that absolutely delights you.

If you’re tired of playing the role of pushy salesperson or angry fishwife in your own family, because "no one else cares about this stuff," this episode gives you the bird's eye view of the skill you need to shift the dynamic, for benefit of one and all.

Tune in and discover how High Profit Thinking can transform your home life and support your career success.

Does it sometimes feel like other women are secretly undermining your leadership? In this episode of Getting Some Help Around the Damn House, I peel back the layers to reveal the hidden ways this sabotage shows up—and why it keeps women stuck playing for flimsy feelings instead of solid outcomes.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• How to spot the almost invisible ways women undermine other women in leadership.
• Why this is a direct contributor to the gender earnings gap and gender wealth gap
• Why this “guide shaming” by women is more pernicious than when men do it.
• How to avoid the leadership quicksand that drains your authority, energy, and income.

If you’re ready to stop pulling your points and start leading with power—in your home, your career, and your life—this episode is a must-listen.

Feeling crushed by back-to-school chaos and the endless mental load? You’re not alone—and it’s not a scheduling issue. It’s a leadership problem.

In this episode, I reveal the litmus test for leadership osteoporosis—the hidden holes in your backbone that silently drain your energy and your bank account.

You’ll see how “playing for feelings instead of outcomes” keeps women stuck, while men keep running the world.

And most importantly, you’ll learn how to strengthen your leadership at home, reclaim your time, focus and energy, and start building a High Profit Home (and career) that levels the playing field at home and at work.

Strong leaders have strong backbones—and in this episode, I show you exactly how to build yours.

You’ll learn my simple, two-step process to strengthen your leadership backbone, with precise examples of what works and what fails, and why.

I’ll also reveal why strengthening your backbone is the key to shifting the dynamics at home, improving your relationships, and putting you into the powerful position to effect change in your home and family.

Along the way, you’ll get eye-opening insights into how acknowledgement and apology can transform your leadership.

Most importantly, you’ll see how building your leadership backbone helps your family transform into a true “Society of Guides”—and why that’s such a powerful and delightful way to live.

Tune in and start leading with the strength that changes everything.

How do you reclaim your role as the guide in your home—and stop getting sidelined by “feel better” nonsense?

In this episode, I expose how life coaching has been hijacked by anti-guide grooming that keeps women stuck in low-profit homes.

You’ll learn why “gratitude for the mess” is not empowerment—and what real leadership looks like instead.

I’ll also walk you through the three core skills every Good Guide Leader needs, and why these three skills are the key to creating a turnaround in your home AND closing the gender earnings and wealth gaps everywhere.

Tune in, and start developing the leadership power that changes everything, at home and at work, and beyond.

Leadership challenges at home don't just affect you at home. They also show up in your career, adding to the mental load and stress levels that working women experience, with the added bonus of biting you right in your bank account.

This episode delivers a real-life illustration of exactly how that happens, diving deep into the case study of a well-meaning mom who unwittingly became the villain in her adult son's failure-to-launch story.

How did this well-meaning mom wind up playing the villain? Anti-Guide Grooming, which is sneaky societal conditioning that unfortunately pushes well-meaning women into the role of the villain in the lives of their near and dear.

What's the effect? This poor mom was cementing her unlaunched son's misguided thinking in place, rather than shifting it.

The fallout? Chaos everywhere—from family dynamics and resentment at home, to slumps in her sales career.

This episode unpacks precisely how that fallout unfolded, and illustrates a giant leadership lesson: The role of the villain is not about evil intent. You can be a good person and a well-meaning person, and still wind up falling into the hole of leadership villainry.

What's the way out of this hole? That's coming up next time, in Episode 8. Stay tuned!

Are you the guide in your home—or the villain?

To master Good Guide Leadership, you must know the players: Who’s the hero? Who’s the guide? And who's the villain?

If you suspect you’ve slipped into the villain role, you didn’t get there alone. In this episode, you’ll uncover the “anti-guide grooming” that undermines women’s leadership at home and at work.

You’ll hear a real-life example of how this anti-guide grooming shows up in families—and how others react when women unknowingly play the villain.

Most importantly, you’ll learn how to identify the true hero in your home, and why your job isn’t to save them—but rather, to guide them into saving themselves.

Does "changing a man" equal "women parenting grown-ass men?"

In a word, no. This episode explains why.

It also explains why using Good Guide Leadership--to shift the unfair thinking and behavior of misguided men--is about SO MUCH MORE than simply shifting the unfair thinking and behavior of misguided men.

It's really about putting the power to dissolve patriarchy for fun and profit directly in the hands of women, for benefit of all people, including women and including you.

And this episode covers a few very good reasons on why that's a very worthwhile thing to do.