Family Dropouts | Episode: Estrangement vs. Alienation – The Pain, the Patterns, and the Truth

For twenty years, Maddie thought she had chosen to cut ties with her dad—only to discover she’d been manipulated into rejecting him. In this raw and revealing episode, Dorcy and Maddie unpack the tangled realities of estrangement, alienation, and child psychological abuse—and what happens when you’ve lived through both.

They share personal stories, hard-earned insights, and a no-BS look at:

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• How to tell if your separation from a parent is self-protection or engineered rejection.
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• The emotional markers that distinguish alienation from genuine estrangement.
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• Why children—no matter the history—are wired to bond with parents, and what happens when that wiring gets hijacked.
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• The hidden shame, guilt, and identity fractures that can linger for decades.
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• How to start reclaiming your narrative, integrating your shadow, and reconnecting with your own worth.
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This isn’t a gentle tiptoe around family conflict—it’s a deep dive into the wound and the medicine. Whether you’re an estranged adult child, a rejected parent, or caught somewhere in the middle, you’ll leave with a clearer understanding of your own story, and maybe the first steps toward healing it.

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