In this raw and unfiltered episode, Tutus and the crew dive deep into the real talk about relationships, money, and modern-day loyalty—or the lack thereof. They dissect the societal trap of chasing flashy men in Lambos while ignoring the one who truly shows up, makes time, and builds a future. From women “selling dreams” to men juggling responsibilities, kids, and side hustles, no topic is off-limits.

Expect heated debates on:

• Why ambition and respect matter more than looks and sex appeal.

• The dangerous illusions of “50/50” in relationships.

• Loyalty—or the strategic lack of it—when it comes to women, side pieces, and social media games.

• The difference between entertaining versus providing.

• Why marriage doesn’t magically fix a broken dynamic.

No sugarcoating here—just brutal truths about who really plays the game, who gets played, and why society’s expectations are setting us all up for disappointment.

• (00:00:00) - Willie Grant on 5050
• (00:02:15) - What Do You Expect Out Of A Relationship With Your Female Partner?
• (00:02:44) - The 50-50 Conversation
• (00:09:02) - How To Manage a Woman's Love
• (00:12:27) - "It's Her Responsibility to Pay All Her Bills"
• (00:16:07) - Amenities
• (00:16:57) - "Give 100% to a Woman"
• (00:22:50) - How To Love A Woman With Money
• (00:26:55) - 100, 100 or Nothing?
• (00:30:54) - How To Win With A Woman
• (00:34:16) - On The 5050 Conversation
• (00:35:05) - The Man in the Lamborghini vs. The Honda
• (00:39:28) - "I Don't Own You"
• (00:42:47) - How To Get A Woman To Stay With You
• (00:45:23) - She Stuck Up On Willie
• (00:48:39) - Black Men Don't Cheat
• (00:50:21) - Black Men On Cheating
• (00:52:54) - Marriage Is Just A Celebration of What You Already Have
• (00:56:14) - Tap in with Us
• (00:59:02) - Punishment for skipping class

On this episode of the Toxicity Podcast with Titus, things get real. Titus dives headfirst into the question everybody avoids but everybody relates to: what does it really mean to be toxic?

Is it intentional, or just misunderstood energy? Can being friendly or charming come off as manipulative? And are some people labeling others “toxic” just because they’re still carrying trauma from the past?

From playful back-and-forths to deep personal confessions, the conversation explores everything from unintentional toxicity, mixed signals, and emotional baggage, to the moments when people actually admit they enjoyed being toxic. The crew breaks down the double standards between men and women, why some of us attract chaos, and what it really takes to heal.

Titus doesn’t hold back as he questions:
“If I’m being honest, respectful, and real, how does that make me toxic?”

It’s raw. It’s honest. It’s uncomfortable. And it’s the truth a lot of people don’t want to face.

Tap in to the Toxicity Podcast with Titus, where real talk meets self-reflection, and healing starts with being honest about your habits.

• (00:00:00) - How Are You Toxic?
• (00:03:07) - "Most of Y' All Are delusional"
• (00:05:51) - Are You Toxic?
• (00:10:18) - James Simons: I'm Not Toxic
• (00:14:00) - What Is The Toxic Behavior Of People In Love?
• (00:17:15) - Courtney On The Toxic People
• (00:18:57) - The Talk of Toxic People
• (00:19:52) - Travis on Being Toxic (
• (00:23:12) - "You're Toxic, You Can't Help It"
• (00:27:20) - "Toxic Relationships"