If you feel like you’ve tried everything to fix your sleep and nothing has worked, there’s a reason for that.

It’s not because you’re failing.

It’s not because your brain is broken.

It’s because most insomnia solutions ignore a very simple but crucial truth:

There are only two forces that control whether or not you sleep.

We refer to them as the Sleep-Starting Force and the Sleep-Stopping Force.

Understanding these two forces is the key to reversing chronic insomnia.

And once you know how they work, you’ll finally be able to stop trying to “force” sleep and start letting it happen naturally.

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Force #1: The Sleep-Starting Force

This is what makes sleep happen.

It’s made up of two biological systems:

• Your sleep drive
• Your circadian rhythm

Your sleep drive is your body’s pressure to sleep.

It builds up the longer you stay awake.

And the only way to release it is by actually sleeping.

It’s kind of like hunger.

The longer you go without food, the stronger your urge to eat.

Eventually, the pressure is so strong that you have to eat.

Sleep works the same way.

You can’t go without sleep forever.

Your body will make it happen.

Then there’s your circadian rhythm—your internal body clock.

It tells your body when to feel awake and when to feel sleepy based on past patterns, light exposure, and time of day.

In the evening, your circadian rhythm aligns with your sleep drive, helping you feel sleepy.

This powerful combo is your Sleep-Starting Force.

It’s your body’s built-in system for regulating sleep.

And here’s the good news:

It cannot be broken.

Even if you have chronic insomnia, this system is still there in your body—waiting to help you.

So why doesn’t it feel like it works?

Force #2: The Sleep-Stopping Force

If the sleep-starting force is your body’s built-in mechanism to make you sleep, then the sleep-stopping force is what blocks it.

And this force is almost entirely psychological.

It’s made up of:

• Anxiety
• Hyperarousal
• And the nervous system’s threat response

When your brain perceives a threat, it activates the fight-or-flight response.

This was helpful when we were being chased by wild animals.

However, it becomes a problem when the “threat” is your fear of not sleeping.

Your body can’t tell the difference.

It just knows you feel under threat.

So it keeps you awake.

Because to your primal brain, it’s not safe to sleep when there’s danger nearby.

That’s why sleep is so hard when you’re anxious.

Even when your body is tired.

Even when you want nothing more than to rest.

The threat of insomnia becomes insomnia.

This creates a loop:

You fear not sleeping → your nervous system activates → you can’t sleep → that makes you more anxious → your nervous system activates again… and on it goes.

This is the Sleep-Stopping Force.

And it’s the real reason you can’t fall asleep—not because you’re doing something wrong.

So What Makes Sleep Happen Easily?

Here’s the formula you want:

High Sleep-Starting Force + Low Sleep-Stopping Force = effortless sleep

If your body is biologically ready to sleep and your nervous system is calm, sleep happens.

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