It might look like love. Might even feel like love. But what if it’s not?

In this episode, we’re exploring the difference between love and attachment. Knowing the difference might save years of confusion, resentment, and chasing someone’s potential.

Stacey is walking you through what love is (without the fairytale framing), how attachment shows up in your nervous system and choices, and why the two get so tangled in midlife relationships.

If you’ve ever been in a situation that made you question yourself, held on longer than you wanted to, or built a future with someone who wasn’t fully present, this conversation may give you language and clarity for what you’ve been feeling.

You’ll learn:

• What real love looks like

• How attachment hides in chemistry and caretaking

• The waiting-for-them-to-change trap

• Why long-term relationships aren’t always mutual

• How to stop confusing connection with compatibility

This episode is a roadmap for recognizing the kind of connection that can hold your wholeness.

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