Ever wonder what really makes teens feel seen and valued? In this heartfelt conversation with my daughter Bre, we pull back the curtain on the everyday moments that build lasting connection between parents and teens. From playful interactions to deep discussions, we share both sides of the parent-teen relationship - what works, what doesn't, and why.

This isn't just theory - it's real insight from both a mom and daughter's perspective on how to create the kind of relationship where teens feel safe to open up and parents feel confident to lead with love.

What you'll hear in this episode:

• How to use play and humor to connect at any age
• Why affirming identity matters more than praising accomplishments
• The power of showing up and putting distractions aside
• How to enter your teen's world through music, interests, and friendships
• Why asking permission before giving advice builds trust
• Practical ways to support your teen, even when you disagree

✅ One Thing To Do This Week (Choose One):

Option 1: Notice & Affirm:

Take a moment to notice and affirm something about who your teen is, not just what they do. Look for their kindness toward a sibling, creativity in solving a problem, or perseverance in a challenge. Speak it out. Let them know you see them.

Option 2: Practice Intentional Presence:

Enter their world – Ask your teen to share a favorite song, game, or story from their day and engage with genuine curiosity. Let them feel seen.

Choose whichever option feels most natural to you - both are powerful ways to start building deeper connection today.

Bre’s Podcast Links and Interview with her pastor:

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/me-myself-and-why/id1778954356

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3FiT9YvhDF1bPIwXSzABRw?si=d5jmrlLCTSard9L3r3qfDg

Interview on One On One:

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/one-on-one/id1797863869?i=1000724844022

YouTube: https://youtu.be/qfNuVRrYeIY

Related Episodes:

14 | The Power of Listening: How Young People Find Belonging When We Truly Hear Them With Greg and Kim McInturff (Part 1): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296?i=1000722896181

15 | The Power of Listening: How Young People Find Belonging When We Truly Hear Them With Greg and Kim McInturff (Part 2): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/connect-with-your-teens-parenting-teens-family/id1826286296?i=1000723151231

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