How many times have you looked in the mirror and quietly asked yourself, "Am I enough?"
What if everything you've believed about your worth has been built on a lie? Today, we're
uncovering the truth God has been speaking over you all along.

Have you ever wondered…
"Am I good enough?"
"Have I done enough?"
"Will I ever be enough?"
If you've wrestled with comparison, perfectionism, insecurity, or the pressure to prove yourself,
this conversation is for you.
In Episode 2 of our Conversations with Mom series, Pastor Lisa and her daughter Bekah have an
honest conversation about what it truly means to be sufficient in Christ.
Too many women measure their worth by performance, social media, achievements,
relationships, or other people's opinions. But God has never asked us to be perfect; He simply
asks us to trust Him.
Together they discuss:
● Why comparison steals confidence
● How perfectionism keeps us stuck
● Learning to recognize the gifts God already placed inside you
● Building God-confidence instead of self-confidence
● Healing from feelings of not being enough
● Elijah's powerful testimony of overcoming rejection and finding identity in Christ
● Practical ways to strengthen your relationship with Jesus and walk confidently in your
calling
If you've ever questioned your value, this episode will remind you that your identity isn't found
in what you do; it's found in who you are in Christ.
You are already enough because His fullness lives inside of you.
Timestamps
00:00 Welcome! Pastor Lisa introduces herself and her daughter, Bekah
01:39 "Have you ever felt like you weren't enough?"
03:14 Conversations with Mom (Episode 2): Your value comes from who God says you are
05:00 Bekah shares why she didn't feel qualified for ministry
06:30 The danger of comparison and trying to fit in
08:45 Pastor Lisa's first leadership calling and discovering your God-given gifts
10:45 Perfectionism vs. willingness: Why God doesn't need perfection
12:15 Social media and the constant pressure to measure up
14:58 Why comparison will destroy your confidence
18:00 Psalm 139: God knew you before you were born
20:00 God never asked you to be enough; His fullness is enough
23:07 Learning dependence on God instead of perfection
24:31 2 Corinthians 3:5; Our sufficiency comes from Christ
24:45 Too many voices are telling us who we're not
28:17 His fullness lives inside of you
29:28 Elijah's powerful testimony of overcoming rejection and finding healing
34:43 Practical ways to overcome insecurity: worship, gratitude, community & Jesus
37:44 Celebrate one another instead of competing
41:00 You are more than enough
41:25 Final encouragement and closing prayer

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Bekah Lagafuaina | @bkaiii

Have you ever wondered why God allows seasons of pressure, waiting, and heartbreak? In this powerful Girls' Night In message, Pastor Lisa Kai reminds us that God never wastes our pain. Just as olives must be crushed before oil can flow, our greatest seasons of pressure often become the birthplace of healing, purpose, and spiritual maturity. If you're walking through disappointment, waiting on God, or wondering why life feels heavy, this conversation will encourage you to stay under His covering, trust the process, and choose life, even when it hurts.

Not every season is meant to feel comfortable. Sometimes God allows the crushing, not to destroy us, but to release what He has already placed inside of us. In this powerful message from Girls Night In, Pastor Lisa Kai challenges us to stop living in yesterday's victories and make room for the new thing God wants to do. Through biblical teaching, personal stories, and practical encouragement, she unpacks how seasons of pressure can either produce fresh oil or leave us trapped in bitterness. Whether you're navigating heartbreak, singleness, disappointment, grief, or simply waiting on God, this episode will remind you that your pain has purpose and that God is still writing your story.

Timestamps

00:00 – Worship with Pastor Lisa Kai

01:00 – God wants to do a new thing: Let go of yesterday and embrace what He's doing now.

03:00 – Prayer before today's message.

05:00 – Welcome to Girls' Night In.08:18 – Bitterness, Naomi, and the danger of allowing pain to define your future.

12:35 – Why olives must be crushed before oil can flow and what that means for us spiritually.

14:54 – The pressing of the Holy Spirit: Will your pain produce oil or toxins?

18:36 – Open wounds, jealousy, unforgiveness, and choosing life (Deuteronomy 30:19).

21:25 – Every decision shapes your future. Choosing God's path every day.

24:37 – Learning to love people now if we're going to spend eternity together.

26:45 – A real-life story about confrontation, reconciliation, and God's power to restore a

marriage.

31:58 – Why God doesn't always remove the pressure.

33:01 – Romans 5:3–5: How perseverance produces character and hope.

33:42 – Waiting with purity, trusting God's timing, and allowing the pressing to expose what still

needs healing.

36:38 – Stay under God's covering during difficult seasons (Psalm 91:1–2).

38:01 – Don't quit. Don't lose heart.

40:00 – Don't leave before the oil begins to flow (2 Corinthians 4:16–17).

44:25 – Jesus' crushing became our healing.

47:29 – Closing prayer.

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Arise Womens Ministry

What do you do when God feels silent, prayers feel unanswered, and everyone else seems to be receiving the blessing you've been waiting for? In this deeply honest episode, Bekah and Pastor Lisa unpack what it truly means to trust God in seasons of disappointment, waiting, grief, and uncertainty. From miscarriages and delayed prayers to surrendering control and learning how to celebrate others while still hurting yourself, this conversation is raw, vulnerable, healing, and full of hope. If you've ever asked God,"Why not me?", this episode is for you.

In this new six-week series, Bekah and Pastor Lisa dive into the difficult yet transformative journey of trusting God, especially when life doesn't make sense. Together, they share personal stories about strained relationships, waiting seasons, miscarriage, emotional healing, and learning how to surrender control to God. Through stories of Hannah, Hagar, and Job, they remind listeners that trusting God isn't always pretty; sometimes it looks like crying in your closet, wrestling with disappointment, and choosing faith even when your heart is hurting.

Pastor Lisa reflects on waiting 9 years to conceive, while Bekah opens up about miscarriage, delayed prayers, and how God taught her to celebrate others while still waiting for her own miracle.

This episode is a reminder that:

• Trust isn't transactional.
• Waiting seasons can grow your faith the deepest.
• God sees you in your pain.
• Peace comes from returning to Him again and again.

Whether you're waiting for healing, restoration, a breakthrough, provision, or a promise, this conversation will encourage you to keep trusting God, even when you don't understand the process.

00:00 – Introduction

Bekah introduces the new six-week series Conversations With My Mother and today's topic:

trusting God even when you don't understand it.

01:00 – Trusting God Through Relationships & Family

Pastor Lisa shares how trust impacts parenting, marriage, friendships, and relationships through

every season of life.

02:50 – Growing Into Mature Conversations

Bekah reflects on how her relationship with her mother evolved over time and the importance of

maturity in communication.

04:40 – What Trusting God Really Looks Like

Pastor Lisa explains that trusting God means stepping into the unknown without knowing the

outcome.

07:30 – Trusting God During Waiting Seasons

Discussion about unanswered prayers, disappointment, confusion, and learning to trust God

when life feels uncertain.

13:50 – Pastor Lisa's 9-Year Waiting Season

Pastor Lisa vulnerably shares her infertility journey and how God strengthened her during the

wait.

18:46 – Pretending to Trust vs Actually Surrendering

Bekah opens up about struggling privately while publicly saying she trusted God.

30:00 – Miscarriage, Grief & Choosing Celebration

Bekah shares her miscarriage story and how God challenged her to celebrate other women's

pregnancies despite her pain.

38:52 –

"One Day You Will Understand.

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Pastor Lisa encourages listeners that delayed blessings often deepen gratitude and

appreciation once they arrive.

41:18 – Prayer for Those in the Waiting

Pastor Lisa prays over everyone currently waiting for healing, breakthrough, restoration, or

answered prayers.

43:07 – ClosingBekah closes the episode and encourages listeners to like, share, subscribe, and continue

following the series.

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