You can recognize the cycle. You can talk about the cycle. You can even pray about the
cycle. But until you confront it, change your response, and allow God's Word to transform you,
you'll keep repeating it. You cannot break what you refuse to confront. It's time to stop the cycle.

What if the very thing you've been praying to break is the same thing you kee prepeating?

It's time to stop the cycle.

In this powerful message, Pastor Lisa Kai challenges us to take an honest look at the
patterns we've allowed to repeat in our lives. Drawing from Mark 5:21-34, she shares
the story of the woman who suffered for twelve years before reaching out to touch the
hem of Jesus' garment.

From cycles of hurt, anger, unforgiveness, people-pleasing, fear, control, and
self-protection, Pastor Lisa reminds us that recognizing a pattern isn't the same as
breaking it.

Sometimes we know what needs to change, but knowing isn't enough. We must allow
God's Word to change how we live, how we respond, and how we move forward.
Because you cannot break what you refuse to confront.

In this message, you'll be challenged to ask yourself:
● What patterns keep repeating in my life?
● What do I repeatedly do when I feel hurt, afraid, overwhelmed, or disappointed?
● What needs to change if I truly want the cycle to stop?
● Am I allowing God's Word to transform my responses?
Not every painful pattern is your fault. Some cycles are rooted in trauma,
circumstances, and things outside of our control. But with God, we can begin creating
new patterns.
Your cycle won't change until your response changes.
It's time to stop repeating what God is calling you to overcome.
Welcome to I AM Her Podcast.
00:00 – Welcome to Ladies Night In: Girl, You're So Full of It!
02:45 – Speaking Blessings Over the Women Around You
04:10 – ARISE 2027: The Word for Next Year Is "Sealed"
06:55 – Building the Next Generation of Women
08:15 – The Message: It's Time to Stop the Cycle | Mark 5
14:41 – Recognizing Your Patterns and Choosing Change
16:21 – Breaking Relationship Cycles: Learning to Be Alone With God
18:57 – Breaking the Cycle of Avoidance and Finding Your Voice
21:42 – You Cannot Break What You Won't Confront
28:08 – Cycles of Hurt, Self-Protection, Anger, and People-Pleasing
31:20 – Breaking the Cycles of Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Fear, and Control
32:53 – Not Every Painful Pattern Is Your Fault
35:33 – Choosing Grit, Commitment, and Longevity
37:04 – Creating New Patterns and Breaking Old Habits
37:54 – When It's Time to Stop Addressing the Pattern and Give It to God
38:08 – Your Cycle Won't Change Until Your Response Changes
40:48 – The Seed: Activating the Word of God | Hebrews 4:13
43:58 – When the Word Starts Changing You, the Cycle Stops
45:33 – The Woman Who Reached for Jesus | Mark 5:25–34
54:33 – Breaking Free From Insecurity and Intimidation
58:12 – Closing Prayer

If this message speaks to you, share it with a woman who needs the reminder that her
past patterns do not have to determine her future.

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