Midseason finale is here Big Smash and Ms. MJ, as they get real about that pivotal moment: when do you really know you're ready to make it official with someone?

In this episode, Big Smash and little big sis MJ dive deep into their own experiences, sharing the personal journeys that led them to say "us" with different partners throughout their lives. They'll unpack those undeniable feelings, the subtle shifts, and the not-so-subtle signs that screamed, "This is it!"

Ever wondered what happens when you put those vulnerable feelings out there? Big Smash and Mj lay it all on the table, recounting both the heartwarming successes and the lessons learned from those leaps of faith. What did they do when their feelings were reciprocated? What about when things didn't go as planned?

More importantly, they'll share actionable insights on what to do after you make it official to nurture and sustain that precious bond. Tune in for a candid, relatable, and insightful conversation about navigating the exciting and sometimes nerve-wracking journey of taking your relationship to the next level.

Guest narrator:Ringold

Big Smash is back in the booth — and this time, he’s not just telling a story, he’s owning one. On this episode of I’ll Explain All This Later, Smash peels back the layers and walks us through some of the realest relationship lessons he had to learn the hard way. The missteps, the missed signs, the times he lost himself trying to hold somebody else down — it’s all on the table.

Special guest narrator? None other than ya boy Styles — the voice behind The Brunch Hour Podcast and the soon-to-blow Hustle and Heal movement with Blsd Jess — riding shotgun to help break it all down with that signature storytelling flavor.

This ain’t about pointing fingers or crying over spilled Hennessy. Nah, this episode’s about recognizing how easy it is to lose your own voice in a relationship — how you start walking, talking, and even thinking like the person you’re with, sometimes without even realizing it. Smash keeps it a buck about what he learned from it all — the good, the ugly, and the necessary.

Styles brings the narration heat, helping us sit with those uncomfortable truths and reminding us that growth ain’t always pretty, but it’s mandatory.

So pull up, tune in, and catch these jewels — whether you’re guilty, growing, or somewhere in between.

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