EPISODE 63: How to Use ChatGPT to NEVER Settle in a Relationship

The reason so many people (women especially) settle in average relationships with average men - and by average I mean not the type of person they actually want to be dating - is because they’re not crystal clear on their relationship vision.

But I’ve got just the solution for you…..a solution that means you’ll NEVER settle in a relationship with someone you’re not compatible with (or who doesn’t treat you how you deserve) again.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I explore how to use ChatGPT to improve your dating life by asking a question that’ll turn your standards list into a full blown dream relationship vision.

From building an intentional wishlist of standards to staying open-minded yet discerning in dating, I discuss how having a future story can inspire hope and prevent you settling for less than you deserve. I also share my personalised future story (cringe moments and all!) and the value of visualising everyday moments in a relationship that feel authentic and fulfilling.

Here’s what we cover:

1. Using AI for Personal Growth: How tools like ChatGPT can help craft a detailed vision for your dream life and relationship

2. Defining Relationship Standards: The importance of creating and regularly revisiting a list of non-negotiables in a partner

3. The Power of Visualisation: How visualising small, meaningful moments can make your dream relationship feel more tangible

4. Balancing Clarity and Openness: Avoiding rigid expectations while ensuring you don’t settle for less than you deserve

5. Dating with Intention: Leveraging your relationship vision to assess dating profiles and make aligned choices

6. Everyday Intimacy Matters: Why the little moments, like dancing in the kitchen or stargazing, are essential in building a lasting connection

7. Self-Worth in Dating: Staying true to yourself and your vision while navigating modern dating challenges

The prompt I used in ChatGPT:

“Can you intertwine a fairytale, healthy, "Nobody Wants This" style relationship with a tall, handsome, intelligent and caring man please? Please be specific about the type of man I'll be with based on this wish list: [and then I added my standards in a list of bullet points] ”

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• Attract on the Apps
• The Breakup Bounce Back
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