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  • Good Fruit vs. Bad Fruit: How to Discern Wisely in a Confusing World

    Good Fruit vs. Bad Fruit: How to Discern Wisely in a Confusing World
    2025/05/19

    In this podcast episode, the host delves into the critical distinction between judgment and discernment as taught by Jesus in Matthew chapter 7 of the Sermon on the Mount. This chapter begins with the well-known admonition, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged." However, the episode emphasizes that this directive does not preclude the necessity of discernment in our interactions with others.

    The Nature of Judgment

    In this context, " judgment " refers to a private opinion that often carries a sense of condemnation or punishment. It implies a harsh assessment of others that distances us from them, rendering them unfit in our eyes. The host illustrates this concept with a personal anecdote about feeling judgmental toward a stranger in a public setting. This example highlights how easy it is to pass judgment without understanding the full context of another person's life.

    Jesus warns that the measure we use to judge others will be the same measure applied to us. This serves as a reminder that our judgments often reflect our own shortcomings and self-centeredness. The host encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and recognize their vulnerabilities, which can foster empathy and reduce the tendency to judge others harshly.

    The Call to Discernment

    In contrast to judgment, discernment is about making wise decisions based on understanding and insight. The host explains that discernment involves recognizing the direction one should take without the condemnation that judgment entails. Jesus invites us to discern wisely, particularly in our own lives, by addressing our own issues first—symbolized by the "plank" in our eye before we attempt to help others with their "specks."

    This process of self-examination is crucial. The host emphasizes that understanding our own flaws and engaging in personal growth allows us to approach others with compassion rather than condemnation. It is through this lens of humility that we can genuinely assist others in their struggles.

    Practical Applications of Discernment

    The episode outlines several practical ways to cultivate discernment:

    1. Self-Reflection: Engaging in a "searching and fearless moral inventory" of oneself helps identify personal shortcomings and fosters a deeper understanding of how our actions affect others.

    2. Setting Boundaries: The phrase "Do not give dogs what is sacred" serves as a metaphor for using our resources wisely. It encourages us to be intentional about where we invest our time, energy, and emotional capacity, ensuring that we are not manipulated or drawn into unhealthy dynamics.

    3. Asking Abundantly: The host encourages listeners to ask God for guidance and support in alignment with His kingdom values. This involves praying for justice, compassion, and healing, which aligns our hearts with God's purposes.

    4. Recognizing Fruit: Jesus teaches that we can identify people by their fruit—good trees bear good fruit, while bad trees bear bad fruit. The host stresses the importance of observing the lives of those around us to discern their true character, rather than relying solely on their words.

    The podcast episode ultimately invites listeners to embrace the journey of practicing discernment over judgment. By focusing on our own growth and understanding, we can engage with others in a way that reflects the love and grace of God. This approach not only strengthens our relationships but also builds a solid foundation for our lives, allowing us to withstand the storms that come our way. The invitation is clear: participate actively in the kingdom of God by cultivating a spirit of discernment that leads to genuine love and support for others.

    To effectively help others, one must first address their own issues and shortcomings, as highlighted by the metaphor of removing the plank from one's own eye before assisting others with their specks. This concept is rooted in the teachings of Jesus, particularly in Matthew chapter 7, where He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and personal integrity before offering guidance or correction to others.

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    21 分
  • How to Know if Your Motives Are Right When You Give, Fast, & Pray (A Bible Study on Matthew 6)

    How to Know if Your Motives Are Right When You Give, Fast, & Pray (A Bible Study on Matthew 6)
    2025/05/12
    In this episode of How to Study the Bible, we dive into week two of the "Take Action" series, focusing on Matthew 6. The Importance of Having the Right Motives When Giving, Praying, and Fasting In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus emphasizes the significance of having the right motives when engaging in spiritual practices such as giving, praying, and fasting. This teaching is crucial for understanding how to live as citizens of the Kingdom of God, as it highlights the difference between outward actions and the inner motivations that drive those actions. 1. Understanding the "When" Statements Jesus introduces three key "when" statements in Matthew chapter six: "when you give," "when you pray," and "when you fast." These statements assume that these practices will be integral to a believer's life. However, Jesus is not merely concerned with the actions themselves; He is deeply interested in the motivations behind them. Giving: Jesus warns against giving to be seen by others, stating that those who do so have already received their reward. Instead, He encourages giving in secret, where the focus is on pleasing God rather than seeking human approval. Praying: Similarly, Jesus instructs His followers to avoid public displays of prayer intended for recognition. Instead, He advocates for private prayer, emphasizing that God sees what is done in secret and will reward those who seek Him sincerely. Fasting: When it comes to fasting, Jesus again points out the danger of performing this act for the sake of appearance. He encourages His followers to fast in a way that is not obvious to others, reinforcing the idea that fasting should be about drawing closer to God rather than seeking the admiration of people. 2. The Wrong Motives Throughout this teaching, it is clear that Jesus identifies specific wrong motives associated with these practices. The desire for recognition, honor, or validation from others can lead to a focus on self rather than on God. This self-centered approach ultimately undermines the true purpose of these spiritual disciplines. Recognition: If the motivation for giving, praying, or fasting is to be seen as generous, pious, or disciplined, then the individual has already received their reward in the form of human applause. This is a temporary and superficial reward that lacks eternal significance. Self-Righteousness: Engaging in these practices to appear holy or superior to others can lead to a false sense of righteousness. Jesus challenges this mindset by calling for authenticity and sincerity in one's relationship with God. 3. The Right Motives In contrast, Jesus invites His followers to engage in these practices with the right motives—those that seek to honor God and align with His will. The emphasis is on the heart's intention rather than the outward display of spirituality. Seeking God's Approval: The true reward comes from God, who sees the heart and recognizes genuine acts of faith. When believers give, pray, or fast with the intention of drawing closer to God and serving others, they align themselves with the values of the Kingdom. Impact of Secret Acts: This teaching highlights the power of secret acts of devotion. Many struggle to believe that private prayers or hidden acts of kindness can have a significant impact. However, Jesus reassures His followers that these actions are powerful in God's eyes and contribute to a deeper relationship with Him. 4. The Conditional "If" Statement The teaching also discusses the conditional "if" statement found in verse 14 regarding forgiveness. Jesus states, "if you forgive," indicating that forgiveness is a choice that believers must actively make. This choice reflects the heart's posture and willingness to extend grace, which is essential for receiving God's forgiveness in return. 5. The Do-Nots Finally, Jesus provides two "do-nots" that further emphasize the importance of motives: Do Not Store Up Treasures on Earth: This warning serves as a reminder that material possessions should not take precedence over spiritual wealth. The focus should be on generosity and the eternal impact of one's actions. Do Not Worry: Jesus encourages His followers to trust in God's provision rather than being consumed by anxiety about their needs. This trust is rooted in the understanding that God cares for His creation and will provide for those who seek Him first. Want to send Nicole a question for a future Listener Questions episode? Email her at nicole@nicoleunice.com THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: 📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk 📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For→ Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor 📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?Check out Help! My Bible is Alive! 🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble. Discover more Christian ...
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  • The Beatitudes: A New Ethic for Followers of Jesus

    The Beatitudes: A New Ethic for Followers of Jesus
    2025/05/05

    In this episode of "How to Study the Bible," we kick off an exciting six-week series focused on the Sermon on the Mount. We'll explore how Jesus instructs us to build and take action on our faith. I encourage you to subscribe to the podcast to stay updated with each episode.

    We dive into Matthew 5, examining how Jesus flips conventional wisdom upside down. I provide context by comparing Jesus' teachings to the events in Exodus, where Moses received the Ten Commandments. Jesus, like Moses, goes up a mountainside to teach, but He brings a new kingdom ethic that challenges and deepens our understanding of God's laws.

    Key themes in this chapter include the invitation to participate and practice our faith, and the call to integrity, aligning our inner motivations with our outward actions. Jesus raises the bar on commandments like murder and adultery, emphasizing the importance of our thoughts and intentions.

    This episode highlights the importance of humility and recognizing our limitations. Jesus sets a high standard to help us understand our need for Him. As we journey through these teachings, I encourage you to embrace your weaknesses and see them as the starting point for transformation.

    Want to send Nicole a question for a future Listener Questions episode? Email her at nicole@nicoleunice.com

    THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES:

    📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:
    https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk

    📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For
    → Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:
    https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

    📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?
    Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

    🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.

    Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    14 分
  • Your Tough Questions, Answered!

    Your Tough Questions, Answered!
    2025/04/28

    You guys did not go light with your questions, and today, we're tackling them all. Listen in as we tackle questions around heaven, sexuality and the role of women in the church.

    Want to send Nicole a question for a future Listener Questions episode? Email her at nicole@nicoleunice.com

    THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES:

    📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:
    https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk

    📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For
    → Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:
    https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

    📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?
    Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

    🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.

    Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    26 分
  • Not an Ending, But a Beginning (A Bible Study on John 21)

    Not an Ending, But a Beginning (A Bible Study on John 21)
    2025/04/21

    John 20 concludes with the risen Christ appearing to His disciples. While it seems like a fitting end, John 21 is intentionally placed to signify a new beginning. This chapter illustrates how the disciples, despite having encountered the resurrected Jesus, return to their ordinary lives, yet everything has changed because of His presence.

    The Miraculous Catch of Fish

    One of the key events in John 21 is the miraculous catch of fish. The disciples, led by Peter, go fishing but catch nothing all night. At dawn, Jesus appears on the shore and instructs them to cast their nets on the right side of the boat, resulting in an overwhelming catch of 153 fish. This moment echoes the earlier calling of the disciples and serves as a reminder of Jesus's authority and the transformative power of following His commands.

    Peter's Restoration

    The heart of the chapter lies in the personal conversation between Jesus and Peter. After breakfast, Jesus asks Peter three times, "Do you love me?" This repetition mirrors Peter's three denials of Christ, creating a powerful moment of restoration. Jesus does not ignore Peter's past failures but instead confronts them to heal and restore their relationship.

    Through this dialogue, Jesus commissions Peter to "feed my lambs" and "take care of my sheep," emphasizing the responsibility of leadership and care within the community of believers. This call to action is not just for Peter but extends to all followers of Christ, urging them to actively participate in the work of the Gospel.

    Questions to Consider This Week:

    How can you make God's name great in your daily lives? Do you expect to see God's presence in the ordinary, whether in nature, relationships, or daily tasks? This perspective aligns with the overarching message of John 21: that even in the mundane, the extraordinary can be found when one is attuned to the work of Christ.

    Want to send Nicole a question for next week's episode? Email her at nicole@nicoleunice.com

    THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES:

    📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:
    https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk

    📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For
    → Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:
    https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

    📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?
    Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

    🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.

    Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    21 分
  • Breath of Life: Jesus' Commission to His Disciples (A Bible Study on John 20:19-23)

    Breath of Life: Jesus' Commission to His Disciples (A Bible Study on John 20:19-23)
    2025/04/14

    This week, we're going to study a profound moment in the Gospel of John, specifically John 20:19-23, where Jesus appears to his disciples after his resurrection. This moment is pivotal, encapsulating the essence of the peace that Jesus offers to his followers.

    Peace Beyond Circumstances

    The first gift that Jesus extends to his disciples is peace. Upon entering the locked room where the disciples were gathered in fear, Jesus greets them with the words, "Peace be with you." This greeting is not merely a formality; it signifies a deep, abiding peace that transcends the immediate circumstances of fear and uncertainty that the disciples were experiencing.

    Rooted in the Truth of the Resurrection

    The peace that Jesus offers is deeply intertwined with the truth of his resurrection. After greeting the disciples, Jesus shows them his hands and side, demonstrating the reality of his suffering and the truth of his resurrection. This act serves to confirm everything he had previously taught them about his mission and the new world order he was establishing.

    Comfort and Joy

    The peace that Jesus offers is not just a passive state; it actively brings comfort and joy to his followers. When believers are in the presence of Christ, the primary emotions they should experience are peace and joy, rather than shame or fear. This transformative experience shifts their perspective from one of anxiety to one of hope and assurance.

    After offering peace, Jesus commissions the disciples, breathing the Holy Spirit into them and sending them out into the world. This commissioning is a call to share the gospel, which includes the message of forgiveness and the hope that comes from knowing Christ.

    Questions to Consider This Week:

    Who do you need to offer the peace of Christ to this week? To whom do you need to offer forgiveness?

    THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES:

    📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:
    https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk

    📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For
    → Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:
    https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

    📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?
    Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

    🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.

    Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    21 分
  • I Have Seen the Lord: Mary Magdalene’s Powerful Encounter with the Risen Jesus

    I Have Seen the Lord: Mary Magdalene’s Powerful Encounter with the Risen Jesus
    2025/04/07

    Last week, we walked through the crucifixion and the meaning behind Jesus’ final words, “It is finished.” If you haven’t listened to that episode, I’d love for you to go back and check it out.

    But today, we’re focusing on just three words spoken in this chapter—words from Mary Magdalene: “I have seen the Lord.” one of the most powerful and personal moments in all of Scripture—John chapter 20.

    So what does it mean to really see the Lord? How does this resurrection story become personal? And why does this matter for our lives right now?

    In This Episode:

    A Grieving Heart, A Personal Encounter
    Mary stays behind at the empty tomb, weeping—and Jesus meets her there. He speaks her name. She turns. She sees. She believes.

    The Power of a Name
    Jesus doesn’t reveal Himself with a grand announcement—He simply says her name. This is what He does with us too—He meets us personally, tenderly, right where we are.

    “I Have Seen the Lord”
    This declaration isn’t just a statement—it’s a witness. Mary becomes the first evangelist of the resurrection. Her story, and our story, is rooted in personal encounter with Jesus.

    Your Invitation Today
    Jesus is still calling names. He’s still showing up. He’s still inviting us to turn and see Him—to believe, to be changed, and to share that hope with others.

    Let This Encourage You:

    We serve a God who weaves together beauty out of sorrow, who calls us by name, and who invites us into a living, personal relationship with Him.

    May you be able to say today, with confidence:
    “I have seen the Lord.”

    THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES:

    📬 Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter to get regular encouragement right in your inbox:
    https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk

    📖 Nicole’s newest book: Not What I Signed Up For
    → Get the intro, first chapter, and a free prayer guide at:
    https://nicoleunice.com/notwhatisignedupfor

    📘 Want to feel more confident reading Scripture?
    Check out Help! My Bible is Alive!

    🛍️ Find all of Nicole’s books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble.

    Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    22 分
  • It Is Finished: Understanding the Significance of Jesus' Final Words on the Cross

    It Is Finished: Understanding the Significance of Jesus' Final Words on the Cross
    2025/03/31
    It is finished. This week, we are in part two of our Signs and Prophecies little mini series, this part of John chapter 19, Jesus's crucifixion, his death, and the profound significance of what Jesus has done for us through the cross. We were in and talked deeply about all of these pieces and details of the story of his crucifixion and how they connect to the Old Testament last week. So if you have not listened to that, I would encourage you to go back and listen to it. But what I want to do today is focus truly on only three words that are spoken in this chapter. We're going to look at Jesus declaring it is finished. What is he talking about? What mission was he on? And how was it completed at that moment? Completion of Jesus' Mission Obedience to the Father: Throughout His ministry, Jesus emphasized His commitment to fulfilling the will of the Father. In John 4 and John 17, He speaks of His mission to take on the sin of the world. This mission extends beyond individual sins to encompass the totality of sin that has corrupted creation. By declaring "It is finished," Jesus confirms that He has completed the work necessary for redemption. Fulfillment of Prophecy: Jesus' death on the cross fulfills numerous Old Testament prophecies regarding the Messiah. The significance of this fulfillment connects to the overarching narrative of God's plan for humanity. The declaration "It is finished" signifies that God was not surprised by the events of redemption; rather, they were part of a divine plan established from the beginning. This understanding reassures believers that God's sovereignty encompasses both human agency and the unfolding of history. Theological Significance of "Tētelestai": The Greek word "tētelestai," translated as "It is finished," carries legal and financial connotations, meaning "paid in full." This indicates that the debt of sin has been completely settled. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross was a one-time act that paid the penalty for sin—past, present, and future. This moment marks the end of the need for repeated sacrifices, as Jesus' death serves as the ultimate atonement. End of the Old Covenant: Jesus' declaration signifies the conclusion of the old covenant sacrificial system. In the Old Testament, atonement for sin required continual sacrifices, but with Jesus' death, the need for such sacrifices is abolished. He is the perfect Passover lamb, and His sacrifice fulfills the requirements of the law, allowing believers to enter into a new relationship with God without the need for ongoing sacrifices. Victory Over Evil: The declaration "It is finished" also signifies victory over Satan and the forces of evil. While Jesus' death may have appeared as a defeat, it was, in fact, a triumph over sin, death, and the devil. By saying "It is finished," Jesus announces that the power of sin has been broken, and the enemy's work has been destroyed. His resurrection further affirms this victory, demonstrating that death has been conquered. Beginning of the New Covenant: Finally, Jesus' declaration marks the initiation of the new covenant. During the Last Supper, He spoke of a new covenant in His blood, which is now available to all who believe. This new covenant transcends ethnic and national boundaries, offering salvation to anyone who places their faith in Him. The declaration "It is finished" opens the door for all of humanity to receive eternal life through belief in Jesus. We're going to be looking at what happens next in the resurrection in the coming weeks. But until that time, I want to encourage you to rest in this reality that we have a God who has woven together this incredibly beautiful, long, detailed story of exactly what happens here in this culminating moment where we see all of Jesus's life come to fruition his mission completed here on the cross so that you and I might have life and freedom and love and confidence in knowing our Heavenly Father. Talk to you next week. THIS WEEK'S RESOURCES: Sign up for Nicole's newsletter and get regular encouragement straight to your inbox: https://nicoleunice.com/realtalk/ Help! My Bible is Alive! Nicole’s Newest Book: Not What I Signed Up For When you go to NicoleUnice.com/notwhatisignedupfor you'll get the intro, first chapter and a free prayer guide! Find all of Nicole's books and resources on Amazon or Barnes & Noble Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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    17 分