Episode Summary:
On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we explored the do’s and don’ts of communicating with polyamorous folks, shared weekend updates from our Drag Bingo adventures, and gave our take on what it means to speak with respect in queer, consensual spaces. Plus, we celebrated women in space, reflected on representation in pop culture, and reminded everyone—again—that polyamory is not your punchline.

Show Notes:

• Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming

• Key discussion topics:

  • What NOT to say to a poly person or couple

  • Respecting communication and boundaries in polyamorous relationships

  • Misconceptions around polyamory, group sex, cheating, and emotional connection

  • The importance of curiosity, not assumptions, when exploring ethical non-monogamy

• Housekeeping:

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  • Thank you to our amazing patrons and season sponsor, WigsofaKind

• Let’s Talk About Us:

  • Freddy: Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese was a blast

  • Felicia: Reconnected with old friends at Shea Cheese and enjoyed the vibe, despite some guests dipping during blackout round

  • Sunday was a reset day prepping for a busy week

• Just the Tip: How NOT to Talk to a Poly Person or Couple

  • “I wasn’t looking for anything serious anyway” – no thanks

  • “Where’s my orgy invite?” – inappropriate

  • “Who’s your favorite partner?” – not how this works

  • “Don’t tell my partner I’m poly” – that’s cheating, not poly

  • “Isn’t one partner enough?” – polyamory isn’t about lacking, it’s about love

  • “Are you going to settle down?” – this isn’t a phase

  • “Who has sex with who?” – not your business

  • “Can I join you guys?” – we’re not taking applications

  • “Oh, like Sister Wives?” – please stop

  • “What about your kids?” – what about them?

  • “Do you get jealous?” – we work through it, just like anyone else

• A Closer Look at Current Events:

  • All-woman flight crew took a 10-minute flight 66 miles above Earth

  • Backlash included criticism over cost and performative messaging

  • Highlighted contrast with real women losing jobs at NASA

  • Harvard pushes back against dismantling diversity programming

  • Celebrating representation:

    • 30th anniversary of A Goofy Movie

    • Mary J. Blige’s My Life added to the National Recording Registry

    • Larry Fitzgerald Jr.’s impact through youth STEM programs and startup investments

• Upcoming Shows & Events:

  • April 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar

  • April 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room

  • May 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (use code for 20% off)

• End of Show:

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