✨Sometimes in order to go forward, you have to look back. ✨

Ever felt like the backpack life gave you to carry around all of the cool stuff you believe in, is plainly overflowing? When is the last time you sat down and took a peek into your own purse to find out what built the person you are today? Join us this week to hear about how we're going back to basics, and asking ourselves some hard questions in pursuit of a life that belongs to us! We would also love to hear some of the foundational things you cling to when it all feels a little too chaotic? How do you hold yourself to yourself when the going gets ghastly? Share your highs and lows with us! Hope you had a great week, HTUYE fam!

Shame is one hell of a motivator, fam. It can convince us of lots of things, and consume our whole lives. This week on the HTUYE podcast, we are opening up about some of the ways shame has played a role in our personal stories and our rolls as parents. We really dug into the some of the stories shame wrote for us, and some of the ways we've taken the pen back. Thanks for unpacking the wagon with us every week, y'all. This one feels like our best episode yet, and we are just so grateful to be on this journey with you!

It is the most wonderful time of the year or so they say. However, when it comes to folks who are dealing with divorce or less than ideal coparenting situations, this time of year can be absolutely brutal. Follow along with Tia and Matt as they talk through their experience with trying to preseve the "Charistmas magic" in spite of being non amicalbly divorced.

This is the second part to last weeks very real and very raw chat about the skeletons in our proverbial closets. The places we've risen from are worth a revisit, because that's really where the magic lives- being the worst versions of ourselves, and choosing to make very intentional pivots to reform it all into something…better.

This conversation was a lengthy one, so we turned it into two episodes- and the second part, is waiting for your ears wherever you get your podcasts! This chat is especially tender, so we recommend not listening to this one with your tiny's around. The content may also be triggering to some of our listeners, so please listen with awareness. This is an intentional stepping into the light, and we share our stories knowing that discomfort is part of it- a part of it that can isolate us or can connect us. We hope for the latter, and we hope that those of us struggling to find peace in the sometimes chaotic arena of healing after divorce, find comfort knowing that as bad as it CAN be, it can also change. It can become different. Healing and peace CAN exist.

Thank you for your feedback, always, friends. Keep it coming! And thank you for all the ways you're providing even more opportunities to turn the painful parts of our journey into something deeply healing and cathartic. What a wild ride this is, y'all.

Buckle in, party people- it's about to get real raw in here.

This week, we're pivoting a little bit, but it's a pivot with intention. In order to truly appreciate the peaks, we gotta pay a little homage to the valleys- no matter how far they are behind us.

So we are inviting you in for a very real and very raw chat about the skeletons in our proverbial closets. The places we've risen from are worth a revisit, because that's really where the magic lives- being the worst versions of ourselves, and choosing to make very intentional pivots to reform it all into something…better.

This conversation was a lengthy one, so we've turned it into two episodes- the first of which, is waiting for your ears wherever you get your podcasts! This chat is especially tender, so we recommend not listening to this one with your tiny's around. The content may also be triggering to some of our listeners, so please listen with awareness. This is an intentional stepping into the light, and we share our stories knowing that discomfort is part of it- a part of it that can isolate us or can connect us. We hope for the latter, and we hope that those of us struggling to find peace in the sometimes chaotic arena of healing after divorce, find comfort knowing that as bad as it CAN be, it can also change. It can become different. Healing and peace CAN exist.

Thank you for your feedback, always, friends. Keep it coming! And thank you for all the ways you're providing even more opportunities to turn the painful parts of our journey into something deeply healing and cathartic. What a wild ride this is, y'all.

For Tia and Matt, even throughout the divorce, they were able to somewhat put differences aside and show up for Coen. However, when one parent throws a challenge flag on the little dude's want to try football, everyone has to work together to find common ground. This is a little look in to their wins, losses, and in-betweens coparenting through their kid's sporting adventures.

Pull up a chair and join hosts Matt and Tia as we give a brief introduction to our lives and a quick insight in to the reasons that we decided to share this journey! We hope you all enjoy and join us for this wild ride.