Nina Badzin is the Host of Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship, a podcast and newsletter that explores the ups and downs of adult friendship. She’s a Minneapolis-based writer who began offering friendship advice in 2014 and launched the podcast in 2021. Her work, now offered via Substack, is regularly featured in outlets like The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, Time, The Guardian, and NPR. Nina also co‑leads creative writing groups at ModernWell and reviews dozens of books each year.

Friendships can bring joy, support, and a sense of belonging, but they can also be challenging to navigate. How do you keep connections strong when life gets busy, or end them gracefully when they no longer serve you? What practical skills can help you model healthy relationships for your children?

According to Nina Badzin, a longtime writer and advice columnist on friendship, the key to lasting connections lies in understanding the natural stages of relationships and not getting in your own way. She highlights three main areas where most challenges arise: making friends, keeping them, and deciding when to part ways. By reframing how we define equality in friendships and letting go of rigid expectations, we can avoid unnecessary insecurity. Nina also emphasizes that friendships are a choice, and surrounding yourself with people you genuinely like improves your well-being and sets an important example for your kids.

In this episode of The Coping Podcast, host Dr. Leigh Weisz sits down with Nina Badzin, Host of Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship, to talk about how to build, maintain, and end friendships. They discuss redefining reciprocity to strengthen bonds, avoiding social engineering in kids’ friendships, and fostering deeper one-on-one connections in groups. Nina also shares how to protect trust by practicing discretion.