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The age-old question of how to raise our children echoes through every generation, but the answers seem to shift with each passing decade. In this deeply reflective conversation, we bring together a fascinating mix of perspectives – a 45-year-old military veteran father, a 27-year-old dad navigating early parenthood, and a young mother of twins alongside her own father.

Through their candid exchanges, we explore one of parenting's most fundamental tensions: how do we balance preparing our children for a harsh world while giving them the love and tenderness they need? The military dad puts it starkly: "I see it as I'm preparing him for the world. The world's a rough place... He's got to learn to fight lions, tigers and bears and slay dragons." Meanwhile, his co-parent sees this approach as unnecessarily hard on their son – a disagreement many parents will recognize.

We dive into the evolution of discipline across generations, from the "because I said so" era to today's more communicative approaches. Should children be allowed to question or correct their parents? Does fear have a place in healthy parent-child relationships? And perhaps most provocatively – do we, should we, treat our sons and daughters differently when it comes to independence, protection, and expectations?

The conversation takes a particularly raw turn when discussing co-parenting challenges after separation. One young father's frustration is palpable as he describes trying to parent alongside someone who seems determined to disagree with every decision. The advice shared – about remaining neutral, documenting everything in writing, and refusing to provide the emotional reactions an ex-partner might be seeking – represents hard-won wisdom.

Whether you're a seasoned parent, new to the journey, or contemplating parenthood, this episode offers both practical insights and emotional resonance. Because while parenting styles may evolve, the fundamental challenge remains the same: raising human beings who are both loved and prepared for the world that awaits them.

After the episode, stay tuned for a heartfelt message from Nailah to her girls.

🎂HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLEO & CALI 💕

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