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Help!! My Teen Feels “Controlled” and “Different”! How to Hold Standards Without Resentment or Rebellion

Help!! My Teen Feels “Controlled” and “Different”! How to Hold Standards Without Resentment or Rebellion

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 Does your teen complain that they feel “controlled,” “left out,” or “different” from their friends because of your family’s standards?Are you worried that your rules might push them into rebellion—or cause them to resent you?In this candid conversation, we break down exactly how to hold high standards without creating resentment, rebellion, or emotional distance.We’ll teach you how to stop parenting from the couch, stop obsessing over control, and start using CONVICTION to convince your kids to OWN the highest standards for themselves.When kids feel like they’re missing out — screens, video games, or anything — it usually means we as parents need to create a family culture that is more fun, more adventurous, and more rewarding than the alternatives.In this episode, we share practical ways to help your kids understand the why behind your high standards — and how to make your life—and your family’s life—so attractive and meaningful that your kids want to choose those standards for themselves.Key Takeaways:✅ How to parent without punishment or power struggles✅ Why setting high standards actually prevents rebellion✅ How to create real family connection—not just rules✅ The power of family adventure trips to shift your child’s perspective✅ Why YOU need to keep leveling up if you want your kids to growIf you’re ready to parent from conviction (not control), this episode is for you.🌍 Join us for the next Extraordinary Family Adventure!Give your teen a life-changing experience on our Everest Base Camp Trek for Youth & Family →👉 https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/trek-everest-base-camp-youth-family👉🏻 Register your teen for our Habits of a Successful Life Online Class. Enrollment now open for Fall!Live classSelf-paced classMentoring Accountability Program (MAP) for 16+Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes02:38 Navigating Parenting Standards and Boundaries05:45 The Challenge of Standing Out as Parents08:25 Communicating Values and Standards to Teens11:02 The Importance of Ownership in Standards14:15 Understanding Consequences and Life Choices17:02 Living the Message: The Role of Parents19:53 The Balance of Unconditional Love and Standards29:31 The Complexity of Love: Unconditional vs Conditional32:14 Prioritizing Relationships Over Rules36:06 Conviction vs Control in Parenting42:37 Creating an Engaging Family Culture50:03 The Importance of Exposure and Experience57:27 Choosing the Hard Path for Greater RewardsMemorable Quotes:🗣️ "Phenomenal parenting is getting your kids to own the highest standards as part of who they are."🗣️ "We don't parent from the couch—we get up and live a life that's so good, our kids want to join in."🗣️ "If the alternative looks more fun, you're doing it wrong. Life is supposed to be better than video games."RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Enrollment is open for the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the Do More With Less Stress Workshop Series for busy momsJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us for a 'Family Study Abroad' at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/
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