In this episode of Hello Ayi, Amanda and Susan take a walk down memory lane, reminiscing about how their friendship began and how it has evolved over the years. From first concerts and wild adventures to deep conversations about destiny, they explore what makes certain friendships last while others fade away. They also reflect on the idea of fated connections—are some people meant to be in our lives, no matter what?

The conversation touches on personal growth, the natural ebb and flow of friendships, and the ways we choose to show up for the people who matter. Plus, they share a hilarious story about an awkward airport run-in and debate whether roller skating is still in their future.

In This Episode:

🎤 The story of how Amanda and Susan met—by chance or fate?

🎤 Why some friendships stand the test of time while others fade

🎤 The unexpected ways people reconnect (including a surprise flight seatmate moment!)

🎤 How different friend groups serve different parts of our lives

Listener Questions: We want to hear from you!

💬Do you believe some friendships are destined?

💬Have you ever had to walk away from a friendship, and how did you know it was time?

💬 Have you made a close friend later in life?

Drop us a comment —we’d love to hear your thoughts!

Susan and Amanda explore the Asian-American experience, focusing on cultural identity, pressures, and the evolution of representation in America. The hosts share personal anecdotes about their upbringing, the challenges of balancing cultural heritage with American identity, and the impact of social media on perceptions of Asian culture. They discuss the complexities of language barriers and the feeling of not being 'Asian enough' in both America and Asia. It's complicated being a Chinese Texan.

As the Lunar New Year ushers in a season of renewal, Amanda and Susan explore what this time of change means for career shifts, personal growth, and cultural identity. In this episode, they dive into the symbolism of the Year of the Snake, sharing stories of resilience and reinvention amid unexpected career changes. They reflect on the pressures of work ethic in the Asian American experience, the challenges of midlife transitions, and the journey toward self-discovery. Tune in for an honest and heartfelt conversation about embracing change, redefining success, and finding fulfillment in the twists and turns of our professional lives.

This episode's listener poll: Do you know what you want to be when you grow up? Share your answer in Spotify polls!