In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Helen Scott — author of Live, Laugh, Lesbian, radio DJ, stand-up comedian, and content creator — to explore her vibrant queer journey and the power of showing up authentically online and offline.

Helen opens up about navigating bullying as a child, discovering her sexuality in an era with little representation, and the moment queer nightlife gave her that first true sense of belonging. She also shares how her online community inspired her bestselling book, why we must embrace fluidity in identity, and how the queer community can come together to fight division in the face of rising hostility.

They dive into the double-edged sword of social media, the importance of offline queer spaces, and practical advice for anyone — from teens to those coming out later in life — looking to build community and live joyfully as their true self.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about queer joy, authentic representation, and building a stronger, more connected LGBTQ+ community.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Childhood Influences on Identity

01:45 First Awareness of LGBTQ+ Community

04:42 The Journey to Authenticity

07:53 The Impact of Community and Belonging

10:40 The Birth of 'Live, Laugh, Lesbian'

13:42 Navigating Stereotypes and Expectations

16:54 The Role of Social Media in Representation

20:02 The Power of Authenticity in Visibility

24:04 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Acceptance

27:08 Building Community in Real Life

31:04 Advice for the Younger Self and the Queer Community

34:39 Celebrating Queer Icons and Representation

38:12 The Impact of Writing and Legacy

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