Kam and Cai talk with filmmakers Contessa Gayles and richie reseda about their film ‘Songs From The Hole’, which channels the creative process of former incarcerated rapper and film collaborator JJ’88. We discuss: the prison industrial complex, the damaging effects of the patriarchy, as well as the importance of community, love, and humanization of incarcerated individuals.

Thank you for 29 episodes of Heauxsome Black Girl podcast 🤎💖

Hey Heauxs!

On this episode: Kam talks about turning 25 and what that means for her, as well as societal pressure to have everything together. They also discuss Amanda Seales, how ADHD and Autism has affected the way they date, create friendships, and how they maneuver in the world. They also get into Kendrick Lamar and have a dialogue about Black men and how they continue to protect predators and allow others to bastardize hip hop and Black spaces.

Time Stamps:

6:40 What Do I Have To Show For 25?

7:30 I’m In My Disciplined Era

10:15 I Felt My Frontal Lobe Develop

11:06 I Don’t Care About A Lot of Things Anymore

11:37 Uncle Ruckus Be Making Some Points

13:00 Amanda Seales

14:11 ADHD/ Autism in Black Women

19:38 Using Sex Appeal As A Way To Mask Neurodivergency

21:40 Shannon Sharpe

23:45 Neurodivergency Information Is Behind A Paywall

29:13 Kam Is A Maximalist, I Am A Minimalist

32:42 Girl, Look At This Nigga!

36:04 Kendrick Has Sex Appeal

37:15 We Not Making Fun of Domestic Violence, We Making Fun of OUR Domestic Violence

40:25 Black Men Allow People To Bastardize Hip Hop

42:25 Kendrick… Why You Collab with Kodak?

46:00 Men Shouldn’t Complain??

49:19 STOP Assigning Traits To Gender

54:09 Black Men Should Be Able To Experiment With Their Sexuality

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Hey Heauxs! We are back with a special 4/20 episode🤎🫶🏽

Here we discuss: perception, dating while podcasting, Chris Brown/Quavo beef, the “fake deep” accusations, the recent beef in the podcast community, Drake’s AI diss, and more!

03:06 We Are Regular Bitches

05:06 I Don’t Wanna Be Famous

06:00 I Fear Being Sexually Assaulted…

09:30 I’m Done Healing, I Need To Fuck Sum

10:38 Broke Celibacy Rule Number One

11:34 I’m Mentally Ill, Babe

12:47 Chris Brown/Quavo/Saweetie

15:25 YG Look Like a Teddy Graham

16:16 We Have Similar, But Different Types

23:24 Drake

26:33 Whitney Had Too Much Faith In The Children

32:08 Hear Me Out

35:43 My Next Man Can Only Have Two Likes

36:29 Are You SURE You Wanna Date A Podcaster?

39:20 What Makes You Feel Sexy?

41:26 Self Love Is Also Discipline and Structure

Hey Heauxs!

As a way to honor the one year anniversary of “We All Want To Be Picked, Sis”, Kam and Caila are giving y’all an hour and a half of content, reflecting on things they no longer resonate with from that episode, as well as their new way of thinking.

Both hosts provide insight into their backgrounds and journeys: Kam opens up about a recent therapy session where she finally got an understanding of her attachment style. Caila reflects on her dating life within the last year, as well as her experiences with grief, and both hosts also tackle the desirability aspect of being podcasters, as well as their childhoods and their personal experiences with “love”.

They also reflect on music from 2012-2019, reminisce on their MB FAN days, and give their thoughts on the recent J. Cole/Kendrick controversy.

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Hey Heauxs! First of all, make sure y’all tune into our last episode ‘Katt Williams’ Daughters’— an exclusive, raw, uncut, and juicy episode available on Patreon for $10🥰😝🤎💖: https://www.patreon.com/HeauxsomeBlackGirl?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator

On this episode: Kam and Caila are joined by Kam’s work partner in crime, Lil, to discuss workplace microagressions, anti intellectualism, and the collapse of critical thinking in this day and age.

Caila talks about her college experience and gives real life examples explaining how college is a luxury.

They also chat about posting partners, Twitter debates, and end the episode with their #HearMeOut segment.

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On this episode: Kam and Cai discuss the dating scene and their difficulties dating with the type of men they like. They also unpack the heavy bigotry that they notice amongst Black men and question why so many of them hold traditional values that do not serve them.

In their #DimensionalHeaux segment they discuss their love languages, what they bring to relationships, as well as their love styles using the app.

In #InternetHeaux, topics range from the hypersexualization of AD’s body, Draya Michele, as well as Black natural haircare myths.

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Cai: https://www.instagram.com/caithecurator

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AUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY!

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046

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In this episode: Kam and Caila are joined by certified sex coach and podcaster, Jody PrHOEvocative for a very Heauxsome discussion filled with laughs, self reflection, and vulnerability.

The ladies discuss Black women’s unique journey towards embracing their sexualities, sexual shame in Black households, and Jody’s experience in owning her own sensuality and body. They also highlight the different types of sex appeal, cringy eras, civil rights leaders they would fuck, lying to men, and they also push for a #StruggleDick movement.

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AUDIO AVAILABLE ON APPLE PODCASTS AND SPOTIFY!

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heauxsome-black-girl/id1660368046

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6MJIoLHhjjOPDfHKBtrrcl?si=sw4jsuIrRACe7EHlFDyDfw

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Stay Heauxsome! 💖🤎