In this conversation, Joel Evan speaks with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, about their innovative approach to intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. They discuss their personal journeys into this field, the common issues clients face, and the importance of communication and understanding shame in sexual relationships. The conversation also explores the healing potential of sexual experiences, the tools available for navigating trauma, and the significance of sexual fulfillment in overall well-being. They emphasize the learnability of intimacy skills and the diverse expressions of sexuality, while also providing insights into daily practices for maintaining connection and resources for sexual education.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Somatica and Its Founders

03:03 The Journey to Intimacy Coaching

05:58 Understanding Client Needs and Common Issues

08:56 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

11:58 Shame and Its Impact on Sexuality

15:01 Healing Trauma Through Sexuality

17:59 Tools for Overcoming Trauma in Relationships

21:07 Individual Needs in Sexual Fulfillment

23:48 Navigating Desire in Long-Term Relationships

24:24 Navigating Sexual Needs in Relationships

26:10 The Role of Communication in Intimacy

27:37 Understanding Touch and Sensation

30:00 The Impact of High Performance on Sexual Fulfillment

32:24 Exploring Different Types of Sexual Experiences

35:20 Unlocking Erotic Energy for Personal Growth

37:00 Daily Practices for Emotional and Physical Connection

39:34 Courses and Resources for Sexual Empowerment

42:04 Future Projects and Collaborations