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When a plane crash changed everything, Jenny Brandemuehl chose to hold on to hope. In this episode, Jenny, a former technology executive and USA Today bestselling author of Forever Fly Free, talks about the months she spent at her husband Mark’s side at the Arizona Burn Center, and what hope, love and intuition taught her through that time and after his passing.

In this conversation we cover topics including:

• Jenny’s definition of hope: not an expectation, but a belief in possibilities
• Why she believes love is an energy, and how it rippled through a hospital and a community
• How she learned to trust her intuition and let go of control
• What it means for her to love again without betraying the love she shared with Mark
• Her work with the Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors to bring mental health support to burn survivors and the families who have lost someone

If you are grieving a spouse, caring for someone who is seriously ill, or coping with a sudden loss, this episode offers honesty, comfort and hope.

Jenny will join a panel at the Grieftastic Book Fair in Los Angeles on Friday, November 13. For more information visit: https://www.grieftastic.com

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If you've lost a child to suicide, you may know the silence that follows, when the people around you don't know what to say or do. In this conversation, Jackie Baker and I talk about the loss of her son Sebastian, and about what it means to grieve honestly and messily while holding on to faith.

Jackie is a nurse practitioner, a bereaved mom, and the author of Messy Mourning, a faith-forward companion for mothers grieving the loss of a child to suicide. She shares Sebastian's story: a brilliant, competitive, well-read young man who, like every child lost to suicide, is so much more than a statistic. Together we talk about the guilt and the "what ifs," the stigma that still follows suicide loss, and how faith can hold you when everything feels dark. I'm honoured that Jackie trusted me with her story. Her hope and honesty may help anyone who has lost a child to suicide feel a little less alone.

Key points we discuss:

•💛 Why suicide loss can feel so isolating. Jackie and I talk about the silence that often follows, when the people around you don't know what to say, and how "acceptable" explanations for a death can make honest grief harder.
•💛 Loving an adult child through their struggles. Jackie shares how she supported Sebastian while holding healthy boundaries, and how hard it is to do both at once.
•💛 Guilt, anger, and the "what ifs." We both share the last conversations we had with our children, and how we've come to accept that we cannot control another person's choices.
•💛 More than a statistic. Sebastian was brilliant, curious, competitive, and deeply loved. Jackie reminds us that every child lost to suicide is far more than the way they died.
•💛 Where the stigma comes from. Drawing on her Master's in Biblical Studies, Jackie explains how suicide has been viewed in the church over the centuries and why that thinking is slowly changing.
•💛 How faith and community carried her. Jackie describes how scripture, prayer, and a church family held her up, and how her belief that Sebastian is healed and whole gives her comfort.
•💛 Why healing is not betrayal. You never forget your child, and you can live and laugh again without guilt.
•💛 Patience with the process. Complicated grief after suicide is often not linear and can take five to seven years or more. Please don't stop showing up for someone after the first year.
•💛 Where to find support. Jackie points to grief groups like GriefShare and to the resources on her website and encourages us to build a village rather than grieve alone.

About Jackie:
Jackie M. Baker holds a Doctor of Nursing Practice from the University of Washington and a Master of Arts in Biblical Studies. She is the author of Messy Mourning and co-founded a free healthcare clinic for the underserved. She leads a grief group and offers suicide grief resources on her website.

Links and resources:

🌐 Jackie's website and suicide grief resource list: jackiembaker.com
🤝 GriefShare, 13-week grief support groups: griefshare.org

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If you're in crisis: In the U.S. or Canada, call or text 988. Elsewhere, please contact your local crisis line or emergency services.

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In this episode, I sit down with clinical psychologist and EMDR pioneer Dr. Laurel Parnell for a conversation that moves between the personal and the professional. Laurel shares her own experience of child loss after the murder of her son, and how it reshaped her understanding of grief, while drawing on decades of clinical expertise to talk about trauma, spiritual connection after death, and the healing approaches she has developed and taught to clinicians worldwide. This EMDR, Resource Tapping, Attachment-Focused EMDR, and her signature Multidimensional Integrative Healing.

🔑 In This Episode
•Multidimensional healing and the spiritual experience of child loss
•Soul parts, soul contracts and after-death communication
•When grief, diagnosis and deeper spiritual experiences intersect
•The overlooked grief of stepparents and changing identity after loss
•What truly helps someone who is grieving
•EMDR, resource tapping and rethinking what healing means — “broken is not wrong”

🎧 Listen to the full episode of The Grief Talk Podcast w/ Vonne Solis and discover a deeper conversation about grief, healing, trauma, spiritual connection, and finding your way forward after loss.

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Resources & Links

Dr. Parnell's website: drlaurelparnell.com

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