The holidays are supposed to be filled with peace, joy, love, and unity…
So why do they often feel stressful, guilt-ridden, and exhausting?

In this episode, we talk honestly about why the holidays are so hard, especially for married couples, and how you can reclaim them with clarity, unity, and intention.

We break down three of the biggest holiday struggles and offer practical, faith-centered tools to help you navigate them together.

If the holidays have felt overwhelming or disappointing in the past, this episode is for you. 🎄❤️

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Dustyn and Heather Miller are the voices behind the Greater Marriage Podcast. With a combined 25+ years of ministry experience, they have dedicated their lives to serving others and strengthening marriages.

Dustyn, a Bible school graduate, jumped into full-time ministry immediately after completing his studies. His heart for people and commitment to God's calling have driven him to serve in various leadership capacities over the years. Heather, after earning her degree in business, also entered full-time ministry, where she and Dustyn worked side-by-side in youth and children’s ministries for more than a decade. Today, they lead a thriving Young Marrieds ministry at their local church, where they are passionate about helping couples build strong, lasting relationships.

Married for 12 years and the parents of three children, Dustyn and Heather's marriage is a testament to the power of God's grace. Heather's journey is also marked by resilience—having been widowed before marrying Dustyn, she brings a unique perspective on healing, restoration, and the redemptive power of God. Their greatest joy is seeing marriages restored, strengthened, and thriving.

Through their podcast, they offer practical advice, biblical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement to couples at every stage of marriage. They believe that every marriage can be greater, no matter the challenges, and they are on a mission to inspire couples to pursue God's best for their relationships.
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Keywords: marriage, communication, red flags, warning signs, counseling, boundaries, childhood experiences, communication, marriage, emotional experiences, marriage, relationships, shared interests, individuality, intimacy, communication, compatibility, introversion, extroversion, personal growth

The digital world isn’t going anywhere. Which means avoiding it isn’t an option! As parents, our call is to disciple, not simply shield. In this episode, we talk about how to guard our children’s hearts (and our own) while navigating phones, social media, games, and the nonstop noise of online culture.

We share practical tools (like filtering software, screen boundaries, and intentional device habits) alongside the biblical truths that shape how we lead our families. You’ll learn how to create a safe environment for your kids to talk openly, how to respond with grace when they’re exposed to something harmful, and why modeling healthy digital behavior matters more than anything.

This episode is packed with real stories, practical steps, and gospel-centered guidance to help you parent intentionally in a tech-saturated world.

FULL NOTES BELOW

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1. PROTECT - Safeguard What They See and Hear

HOW WE DO THIS:

Accountability software on every device (Covenant Eyes).

Delayed phones until they can drive.

Smart watches are locked down so kids can only text approved contacts.

Computer access only in public spaces (living room/kitchen).

Limited game time and intentional game selection.

Careful about music, YouTube, movies—content that shapes values.

2. EQUIP - Preparing Kids for What They Will Encounter

HOW WE DO THIS:

Teach Them What to Do When They Encounter Something Wrong.

Look away immediately.

Tell a parent right away.

Process feelings with you (shame-free).

Normalize letting your kids come to you.

“You’ll never get in trouble for something you unintentionally saw or heard.”

3. DISCIPLE - Form a Biblical Worldview in a Digital Age

Teach Them Why Purity Matters:

Seeing people as image-bearers

Honoring God with our bodies and minds

Protecting their future marriage

Psalm 119:9 NLT

How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word.

4. MODEL - Kids learn more from what you do than what you block.

If you want your teen to put the phone down at dinner, show them your phone is down too.

If you want them to look away, you look away.

If you want them to have healthy boundaries and accountability, create them for yourself too.

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@dustynmiller @heathermiller @greatermarriage

Facebook

@dustynmiller @heathermiller @greatermarriage

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Keywords: marriage, communication, red flags, warning signs, counseling, boundaries, childhood experiences, communication, marriage, emotional experiences, marriage, relationships, shared interests, individuality, intimacy, communication, compatibility, introversion, extroversion, personal growth

In this episode of the Greater Marriage Podcast, Dustyn & Heather discuss the importance of real conversations in marriage. They identify seven communication killers that can hinder healthy dialogue between partners, emphasizing the need for open and honest communication. The episode highlights the significance of addressing hard conversations, avoiding sarcasm, and fostering deeper connections beyond just business talk.

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FREE RESOURCES FROM GREATER MARRIAGE ⬇️

https://greatermarriage.com/resources

Connect with us

connect@greatermarriage.com

Website

https://greatermarriage.com/

Instagram

@dustynmiller @heathermiller @greatermarriage

Facebook

@dustynmiller @heathermiller @greatermarriage

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Dustyn and Heather Miller are the voices behind the Greater Marriage Podcast. With a combined 25+ years of ministry experience, they have dedicated their lives to serving others and strengthening marriages.

Dustyn, a Bible school graduate, jumped into full-time ministry immediately after completing his studies. His heart for people and commitment to God's calling have driven him to serve in various leadership capacities over the years. Heather, after earning her degree in business, also entered full-time ministry, where she and Dustyn worked side-by-side in youth and children’s ministries for more than a decade. Today, they lead a thriving Young Marrieds ministry at their local church, where they are passionate about helping couples build strong, lasting relationships.

Married for 12 years and the parents of three children, Dustyn and Heather's marriage is a testament to the power of God's grace. Heather's journey is also marked by resilience—having been widowed before marrying Dustyn, she brings a unique perspective on healing, restoration, and the redemptive power of God. Their greatest joy is seeing marriages restored, strengthened, and thriving.

Through their podcast, they offer practical advice, biblical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement to couples at every stage of marriage. They believe that every marriage can be greater, no matter the challenges, and they are on a mission to inspire couples to pursue God's best for their relationships.

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Keywords: marriage, communication, red flags, warning signs, counseling, boundaries, childhood experiences, communication, marriage, emotional experiences, marriage, relationships, shared interests, individuality, intimacy, communication, compatibility, introversion, extroversion, personal growth