What do men really need to feel safe in a relationship? In this episode from Grace & Truth Talks, the conversation gets real about growth, humility, leadership, and the often-overlooked ability to submit when your partner is stronger than you in certain areas. This is a powerful and necessary discussion for anyone pursuing healthy love and purposeful partnership.

The guys break down one of the most missing elements in modern relationships: growth, not just physical attraction, humility, or family values, but the intentional decision to evolve together. They explore how powerful it is when two people choose each other not just where they are, but where they’re going.

You’ll hear honest stories about:

• Submitting ego when your partner is better in certain areas
• Creating financial plans as a team
• Why accountability and humility matter
• The beauty of a woman who leads with elegance, wisdom, and presence
• The struggle many couples face when it comes to saying “I’m sorry” and taking responsibility

The conversation is open, raw, and real, touching on the ego of men, the accountability blind spots of women, and the importance of introspection, spiritual character, and emotional maturity in relationships today. If you’ve ever wondered why great relationships fall apart, or what keeps strong couples growing together, this clip hits home.

Everybody asks women what they want in a man, but this time, the fellas got the mic. In this raw and mature Grace & Truth episode, Pastor James sat down with three single men to have an honest conversation about what marriage-minded men actually look for in a wife, beyond looks, status or social media trends.

They talk humility, emotional safety, growth and how ego, pride, and timing shape the way men love and lead. It’s real, relevant and necessary. In this episode:

• The balance between strength, softness & submission

• How ego and pride affect love & leadership

• Emotional safety: why men shut down or open up

• Right woman, wrong season — when timing matters

• Modesty, femininity & what actually draws a godly man

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On this episode of Grace & Truth, we are getting real about the difference between infatuation and mature, sacrificial love. We discuss why so many of us get stuck in relationships that move in circles rather than spiraling upward, and why "potential" is the most dangerous thing to fall in love with. Pastor James and Pastor Tiff share the blueprint for spotting "fruit" in a partner—looking past the material things to see character, discipline, and purpose.

In this episode:

• The Reality Check: Why 85% of people who get into toxicity never come out of it.
• The Safety of Real Love: Why feeling emotionally safe is the ultimate indicator that you are with the right person.
• Financial & Emotional Red Flags: How selfishness shows up in small ways (like eating alone in the car!) and what it says about a person's character.
• The Law of Investment: Why you cannot reap a harvest where you haven't sown, but you must ensure the ground is fertile first.
• The final, liberating realization you must have: You must stop trusting God for the relationship and start trusting God with you and your future.

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