You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you’ve had a hundred times before.
It’s not about the dishes or the money. It’s about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens.

• What is the real reason behind recurring fights, and why it’s rarely about what you think
• How the nervous system drives reactivity, defensiveness, and shutdown in moments of conflict
• What is the hidden cost of unresolved arguments, and how do they quietly erode intimacy and trust
• How does the shift from blame to curiosity look like, and how does that one change transform conflict into connection
• What are the practical tools for regulation and repair so you can anchor yourself and your partner in safety
• Why retreats work when nothing else has and how new environments accelerate healing and intimacy

If you’re ready to stop fighting the same fight and start feeling safe, seen, and connected again, this episode is your roadmap back to love.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP COUPLE RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:

• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

This isn’t about adding “spice.” It’s about remembering how good it feels to choose each other… body, heart, and soul.

Only 5 couples. Rooms are filling first-come, first-served (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.

✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy, vitality, and connection

✨ How play keeps polarity alive and brings back curiosity, teasing, and magnetism

✨ How erotic energy goes beyond the bedroom and how it fuels joy, presence, and aliveness in everyday life

✨ What are the practical ways to choose pleasure daily, from small rituals to intentional touch

✨ Why retreats provide the fastest “erotic reset” and how stepping out of autopilot into new practices that reignite passion

If your relationship feels flat or overly serious, this episode is your invitation to reclaim play, pleasure, and erotic aliveness together.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS NOVEMBER 20–24 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

Here’s what you can expect:
🌹 Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
🌹 A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
🌹 Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
🌹 Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

👉 Say yes to your erotic aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book an Exploration Call to feel into whether this is your next yes
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

PS: November is filling. February is open. But the spark you crave? That starts the moment you say yes.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.

• How couples silently slip into the roommate phase without even realising it
• What are the subtle and obvious signs you’re stuck in comfortable-but-disconnected energy
• What is the hidden emotional toll of staying in roommate mode, and why does it impact more than your sex life
• How to break the cycle with daily practices that reawaken play and polarity
• Why retreats create the reset you can’t get in your everyday environment

If you’ve been feeling the ache of disconnection, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s an invitation to reset, to choose love again, and to step into deeper intimacy.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.

• What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enough
• How polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energy
• What is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over time
• What are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connection
• Why safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.

If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.

OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand
• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance
• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric
• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed

👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for you
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.

• Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.
• Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.
• How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.
• What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspoken
• Why intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom.

Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

So many of us were told that passion fades with age and that once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, intimacy is over.

We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.

• Busting the myth that passion naturally fades in long-term relationships.
• The hidden cost of avoiding intimacy and how it impacts your whole life.
• Why midlife and menopause aren’t endings, but portals to deeper erotic energy and aliveness.
• The five kinds of intimacy that matter and are beyond just sex.
• Why retreats create breakthroughs that vacations or date nights never could.

If you’ve been feeling like it’s “too late” to get the passion back… this episode is your reminder that intimacy is waiting for you.

💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is the right next step for you and your partner.

Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

ABOUT US:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You’d think retreat leaders wouldn’t “need” a retreat themselves… but the truth is, we’ll never be done learning, deepening, and choosing each other.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.

• Why we signed up for a six-month mastermind and retreat, even with resistance.
• Why even leaders need to surrender and be held and how it changed our intimacy.
• How emotional release practices create deep safety and intimacy in partnership.
• What is the erotic charge of polarity — and how containment and surrender can lead to full-body orgasms (yes, fully clothed).
• Why you don’t have to wait until crisis to invest in your relationship.

If you’ve been craving more intimacy, trust, and desire in your relationship, this episode is your sign.

🔥 Reignite the flame. It starts with a single step. Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.
💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call today to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is right for you.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like roommates than lovers? The truth is… your spark isn’t gone. It’s waiting to be remembered.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how presence, polarity, and sacred intimacy can bring back desire—without starting from scratch.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why your spark isn’t gone and it’s buried under stress, routine, and disconnection.
• How to bring presence into your day and stop performing for love.
• Desire doesn’t die, and it suffocates. Learn how to create space for erotic energy to rise.
• The everyday acts of service and devotion that rebuild intimacy (it’s not about grand gestures).
• How to shift from feeling like roommates to reawakening passion together.

If you’re longing to feel more alive, connected, and deeply desired again… this episode is your invitation.

🌹 Ready to reignite your spark?

💫 Book an Exploration Call to explore joining us at a Phoenix Rising Retreat.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com