In this episode of Grateful Not Greedy™, hosts Kris and Rachel unpack Rachel’s recent adventure to Australia and recount her earlier visit— a journey filled with self-discovery, connection, and a few unexpected first dates. After more than 25 years out of the dating scene, Rachel shares what it was like to reenter the world of modern dating while traveling, to explore new dynamics through using apps for the first time, and to embrace the excitement (and vulnerability) of meeting new people abroad.

Together, Kris and Rachel reflect on what it means to approach dating — and life — from a place of gratitude rather than scarcity. They discuss the importance of mindset, safety, and intentionality when building new connections, as well as how meaningful growth often happens when we step outside our comfort zones.

Tune in as they explore how being grateful, not greedy can transform the way we experience life.

Episode Takeaways

1. Mindset Matters:

   • Approach dating with curiosity, openness, and gratitude.

   • Keep expectations low to allow genuine connections to form.

   • The energy and attitude you bring can shape your experience.

2. Enjoy the Process:

   • Treat first dates as opportunities to meet new people, not high-pressure auditions.

   • It’s okay to feel unpracticed after time away from dating — ease back in.

   • Learn from every experience, even casual ones.

3. Practical Tips:

   • Let friends help with your dating profile for fresh perspective.

   • Be cautious and aware, especially when dating in new places.

   • Notice how people talk about their past relationships — it reveals character.

   • A kiss can offer insight into compatibility.

• Empowerment and Perspective:

  • You control your dating narrative and choices.
  • Online dating can feel less intimidating when stakes are low in an are outside of where you live
• • New experiences (like travel) can renew your confidence and perspective.

  
  

  Sound Bites

  • "I have zero expectations."
  • "We really hit it off."
  • "Be intentional about it."
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  Chapters

  00:00Introduction and Australia Trip Overview

  02:56Dating App Experience and Insights

  05:59Understanding Bumble and Dating Dynamics

  09:00First Date Reflections and Expectations

  12:00Navigating Conversations and Connections

  14:49Embracing the Dating Process

  17:59Side-by-Side Dates and Comfort in Dating

  23:40Reflections on Past Experiences

  27:07The Importance of Connection

  28:47Navigating New Encounters

  35:02Lessons from Dating

  40:27Understanding Online Dating Dynamics

  46:31The Power of a Kiss

  47:50Jedi Master Date: Learning from Connections

  49:32Exploring New Connections: The Joy of Dating

  51:47Growth Through Travel: Reflections on Dating

  54:02Opening the Door to New Opportunities

  56:42Returning Home: Applying Lessons Learned

  01:01:12Reflecting on Personal Growth