In this episode, Gage Masterson, star of the Reality TV Show, Channel 4's Open House: The Great Sex Experiment , and prominent figure in the realm of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), talks about his personal journey into the realm of ENM, as well explaining what ENM is, and how he feels about the social constructs and perceptions surrounding traditional monogamy. Gage shares insights on communication, boundaries, and the emotional complexities of jealousy within non-monogamous relationships. The discussion also touches on Gage's experiences in the swinging lifestyle and the importance of having open dialogue and non-judgmental attitude whilst navigating these relationships. The conversation explores the themes of connection, community, mutual respect and safety. We discuss the importance of building relationships beyond just sexual encounters, the challenges of coming out, and the creation of Swing Hub, a platform designed to provide a safe space for non-monogamous individuals. We also talk about the significance of friendship, support, and the gradual exploration of non-monogamous lifestyles.

Insta Links:

@magicgage

@swinghubapp

@Openhousethegreatsexexperiment

In this episode we explore the complexities of being human first and then being professional second. James talks about his personal experiences with therapy, childhood dynamics, and the challenges of navigating relationships. He also talks about significance of connection, the impact of family on emotional health, and the journey of becoming a therapist. James talks about the impact of therapy on his emotional growth, and the importance of understanding his reactions and vulnerabilities. James shares valuing the significance of cultivating and maintaining inner peace, the process of apologizing and taking responsibility for his actions, and the role of authenticity in therapy. He shares how he feels the continuous journey of self-improvement and the balance between helping others and self-care is integral to a healthy life.

Chapters

00:00 The Pressure of Reality Shows

00:09 Podcasting Behind the Scenes

04:37 Misconceptions About Therapists

07:08 Emotional Turbulence and Sensitivity

09:15 Childhood Connections and Disconnections

11:11 The Impact of Family Dynamics

12:36 Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Retreat

14:14 The Path to Helping Professions

16:10 Seeking Connection Beyond the Home

18:01 Teenage Anger and Family Relationships

18:57 The Turbulent Teenage Years

22:19 Seeking Validation and Connection

25:12 Moving to Wales: A New Family Dynamic

29:06 Therapeutic Journeys and Self-Discovery

32:44 Embracing Sensitivity and Emotional Intelligence

35:13 Understanding Self-Sabotage and Healthy Choices

37:38 The Complexity of Emotions and Reactions

41:46 Cultivating Inner Peace and Personal Responsibility

45:40 The Ongoing Journey of Self-Development

46:29 Embracing the Journey: Goals vs. Enjoyment

47:24 Breaking Old Patterns: The Path to Happiness

48:49 Becoming Your Best Self: The Journey of Change

49:44 Role Modelling Authenticity: The Therapist's Journey

50:54 The Importance of Self-Care: Finding Inner Peace

52:46 Human First: The Therapist's Perspective

54:07 Learning and Growing: The Continuous Journey

56:06 Emotional Flexibility: Adapting to Life's Challenges

Keywords

mental health, wellness, therapy, emotional health, human experience, relationships, coaching, podcast, integrative therapy, personal growth, self-discovery, therapy, emotional growth, relationships, vulnerability, inner peace, personal development, authenticity, self-responsibility, healing

In this episode we explore the complexities of being human first and then being a professional second. Sam talks about how he is himself first and then a life coach second. We discuss the importance of owning one's humanness, and the continuous journey of growth. Sam shares his personal experiences, such as the need for external validation, and the impact of family dynamics on self-worth, and much more. The theme of this conversation centres around the idea of what it means to “have your shit together” and how this is defined, from Sam's perspective.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Teenage Distress

24:14 The Challenge of social media

50:35 The Importance of Being Real

53:27 Reflections on Personal Growth

55:03 Defining 'Having Your Shit Together'

Keywords

mental health, wellness, coaching, personal growth, self-discovery, validation, human experience, helping professions,emotional well-being, journey, self-perception, external validation, therapy, vulnerability, authenticity

In this episode, we welcome intimacy and relationship specialist Lottie Passell-Syms. We discuss the importance of communication in relationships, the changing landscape of dating, and the need for empathy and connection. Lottie shares insights from her twenty years of experience in the field, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other's needs and expectations. This episode provides valuable insights into fostering healthier relationships and understanding individual needs.Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

00:53 Understanding Intimacy and Relationships

03:09 Changing Landscape of Dating and Relationships

05:58 Communication in Relationships

11:49 Expectations and Needs in Relationships

18:11 The Role of Empathy and Connection

24:01 Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships

35:22 Redefining Generational Stereotypes in Relationships

39:06 The Dynamics of Relationship Roles

43:33 Navigating Childhood Scripts in Adult Relationships

49:11 Exploring the Importance of Sexual Communication

55:12 The Role of Anticipation and Playfulness in Sex

01:01:32 Breaking Taboos: The Conversation Around Masturbation

01:05:53 Understanding Limerence and Love

01:11:52 The Power Struggle in Relationships

01:17:20 Forgiveness and Conscious Uncoupling

01:23:22 Communication and Relationship Maintenance

01:29:00 Keeping Your Heart Open After Breakups

Keywords

intimacy, relationships, dating, communication, empathy,expectations, needs, power dynamics, connection, sex, relationships, communication, intimacy, therapy, sexual health, gender roles, emotional safety, childhood scripts, sexual exploration, consent, limerence, love, relationships, forgiveness, communication, conscious uncoupling, emotional health, couples therapy, intimacy, personal growth

Website: www.lottiepassellsyms.com

IG: @lottiepassellsyms

In this episode, we explore and answer questions from you, our lovely listeners, on varying themes surrounding mental health, personal growth, and relationships. We discuss the ability to change one's mindset, the impact of our environment on personal development, and the importance of openness in relationships. We share our personal preferences regarding intimacy; our culinary preferences for a ‘last meal on Earth’; our chosen dinner party guests for a fictional dinner party; and Sam reveals his personal 'ick' list that highlights what he finds off-putting in relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

02:56 Mindset and Personal Growth

05:54 The Power of Change and Neuroplasticity

09:13 The Role of Environment in Shaping Mindset

11:58 Personal Experiences and Influences

14:47 Exploring Intimacy and Relationships

18:00 Influences in Life and Relationships

20:49 Death Row Meal: A Lighthearted Question

30:22 Culinary Delights: A Last Meal on Earth

36:56 Dinner Party Guests: Living, Dead, and Fictional

54:21 The ick List: What Turns Us Off

01:00:04 Closing Thoughts and Future Connections

In this episode, we discuss the challenges of transitioning into the season of winter and the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. We briefly discuss SAD and we talk about the concept of the 'Winter Arc,' a trending self-development initiative that encourages individuals to set personal goals and focus on self-improvement during the winter months. We discuss the importance of personal accountability, the psychology behind goal setting, and the challenges faced during the holiday season, particularly regarding fitness and personal choices. We delve into the complexities of holiday food traditions and the societal pressures surrounding New Year's resolutions. We talk about the nature of change, the impact of hitting rock bottom, and the statistics behind NY resolutions. We also discuss practical tips for maintaining well-being during the winter months and the significance of embracing change.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Initial Banter

06:01 Winter Mindset and Seasonal Changes

11:54 Understanding Seasonal Affective Disorder

17:21 Setting Goals and Personal Accountability

24:52 Navigating the Holiday Season: Accountability and Choices

28:12 The Challenge of Holiday Indulgence

32:58 The Psychological Impact of Winter

36:47 Finding Joy Amidst Winter Blues

40:53 Holiday Traditions: The Pigs in Blankets Debate

41:57 The Psychology of New Year's Resolutions

42:49 The Importance of Change Anytime

43:46 Hitting Rock Bottom and Making Changes

44:41 The Statistics Behind Resolutions

45:52 Themes vs. Resolutions

46:52 The Concept of a New Year's Theme

47:51 Experiences Over Resolutions

48:41 Philosophy Shift in Goal Setting

49:51 Mitigating Failure in Goal Setting

50:57 Control Over Achievements

In this episode of 'Flex Your Feelings', we reflect on our journey through the podcast's first season, discussing the importance of light-hearted conversations around serious topics. We play a fun game of 'Ask Me Anything' and then the conversation deepens as we talk about the answers which we give and the experiences behind them. We laugh together as we share our experiences with each other, and with you.

Chapters

Keywords

mental health, wellness, podcast, relationships, personalgrowth, monogamy, emotional intelligence, sexuality, self-love, communication, emotional availability, gender stereotypes, action orientation, decisiveness,stubbornness, single behaviours, time travel, personal growth, future aspirations, happiness

mental health, wellness, sex positivity, communication, emotional intelligence, kinks, fetishes, relationships, intimacy, validation, relationships, boundaries, openness, sex positivity, communication, pornography, kinks, fetishes, emotional connection, sexual expression

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of sex, exploring themes of sex positivity, personal experiences, and the importance of communication in sexual relationships. We discuss the societal taboos surrounding sex, the role of consent and boundaries, and the significance of understanding kinks and fetishes. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue about sexual preferences and experiences, highlighting that sex should be an enjoyable and fulfilling aspect of life. We emphasizes the need to move past shame associated with kinks and fetishes, advocating for a more positive and accepting view of sexual expression. We also critique the unrealistic expectations set by pornography and highlights the significance of healthy conversations about sex to foster intimacy and understanding between partners.