Host Michael Millward chats with Wallis Pattisonn,psychic medium, prosperity teacher, and founder of Bold Not Old, about what it really means to stay vibrant, purposeful, and boldly yourself at any age.

Wallis shares the moment at age 70 when she started making comparisons and realised that some younger people seemed to be stuck.

That realisation sparked a movement. What began as a celebration of personal style evolved into a deeper philosophy: ageing boldly is about refusing to hand over control of your life, your choices, and your identity.

Across the conversation, Wallis explores:

• Why style is an act of self‑expression, not conformity.
• How Bold Not Old became a global community of people defying age stereotypes
• The danger of slipping into nostalgia and ‘God’s waiting room’.
• Why purpose creates energy — not the other way around.
• How society conditions us to feel old long before we are.

Wallis also shares the powerful story of Chris Gillies, one of the role models featured in her book Being Bold Not Old: A New Generation of Role Models. After a stroke took 40% of her sight, Chris refused to become a victim.

This episode is a reminder that ageing is not about decline — it’s about design. You choose how you show up, how you express yourself, and how you keep moving forward.

Whether you’re 22, 52, or 82, this conversation will challenge your assumptions, energise your thinking, and encourage you to take back stewardship of your own life.

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The lifelong tension between who we are and who society expects us to be

Host Michael Millward chats with Joshua Rodriguez, a New York–based kink coach and accountability coach from The Kink Collective, for a powerful conversation about identity, authenticity, masculinity, and the lifelong tension between who we are and who society expects us to be.

Drawing on deeply personal experiences, Joshua explores how social labels, cultural expectations, and fear can silence our true expression; whether in relationships, sexuality, or everyday life. He discusses the emotional cost of authenticity, the courage required to show up honestly, and the transformative journey from shame and conflict to accountability and emotional maturity.

Together, Michael and Joshua unpack themes including:

• The conflict between individual identity (“me”) and social expectation (“us”)
• How masculinity is shaped—and often distorted—by cultural pressure
• The role of expression, vulnerability, and self‑acceptance
• The emotional price of authenticity: judgment, rejection, and courage
• Rebuilding trust with oneself after past mistakes
• Why mentorship, community, and curiosity matter for personal growth
• How labels shape belonging—and how to find the people who see you for who you are

This episode blends psychology, lived experience, social commentary, and personal transformation. It’s an honest, challenging, and inspiring conversation that will leave listeners reflecting long after the recording stops.

Keywords: authenticity, masculinity, kink coaching, accountability coaching, identity conflict, self‑expression, emotional maturity, personal growth, vulnerability, relationships, social expectations, The Kink Collective, Joshua Rodriguez, Fit for My Age podcast, Michael Millward.

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The way we look, feel and energetically show up defines us

Host Michael Millward and Dubai‑based holistic aesthetician, facialist, mentor and global wellness expert Katrina Valente, (who has over 30 years’ experience) explore how the way we look, feel and energetically show up shapes our careers, relationships and long‑term wellbeing.

Katrina explains why many outwardly successful women experience burnout, emotional exhaustion, and a sense of inner emptiness. She discusses

• The difference between masculine and feminine energy, and
• Why modern work cultures make women operate in masculine ways.

Reconnecting with feminine intuition, creativity and flow can, she says transform both personal happiness and professional success.

Katrina explains how her global career led to the development of her signature mentoring programmes: Radiance Reset and The Valente Method.

She explains the signs of energetic imbalance, the health consequences of constant over‑drive, and practical steps women can take to restore balance; such as creating “white space” in their day, slowing down, and embracing intuitive decision‑making.

This episode also explores:

• Why first impressions matter
• Why women often compete with themselves without realising
• The impact of burnout on the nervous system
• How men and women make decisions
• What male managers can do to better support female colleagues
• The role of language in communication between genders

Whether you’re a woman navigating a demanding career, a leader managing diverse teams, or simply curious about the intersection of wellbeing, identity and professional life, this conversation will challenge assumptions and spark reflection.

Find out more about Katrina Valente and Michael at Abeceder.co.uk.

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