In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Jodi sits down with bestselling author, mental health advocate, and Gen Z voice Carrie Berk to talk about her new memoir Mindfire: Diary of an Anxious Twentysomething. Carrie opens up about turning her raw journal entries into a published book, navigating OCD and anxiety in her early twenties, and how vulnerability became her greatest source of strength.

Together, they explore what it means to be fearlessly authentic in a world that tells you to hide your pain, and why being open about mental health is more important now than ever.

✨ You’ll hear:

• Why journaling helped Carrie process trauma and grief

• The real-life inspiration behind Mindfire

• Advice for young adults facing anxiety, heartbreak, and identity crises

• How Carrie built confidence through storytelling

• A lightning-fast round of Fearlessly Fast questions you won’t want to miss!

🎧 Listen now and get inspired to embrace your story—messy, magical, and all.

📘 Grab your copy of Mindfire: Diary of an Anxious Twentysomething here:

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Today’s guest is Bela Gandhi—the fabulous founder of Smart Dating Academy. Bella is one of the country’s most sought-after dating and relationship experts. She’s been featured on Good Morning America, The Today Show, and more, helping people find love with confidence, clarity, and what she calls “psychotic optimism.” She’s been on the show before, and I couldn’t wait to have her back, especially now that spring is in the air and people are ready to get out there and start dating again.

You can find Bela and learn how you can date smarter and fall in love

This week on Fearlessly Authentic, I sit down with the bold and brilliant Pattie Ehsaei—also known as The Duchess of Decorum—to talk about her highly anticipated book Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook (out May 6, 2025). In this candid conversation, we unpack what it really means to date a “broke dude”—and spoiler: it’s about way more than money.

We get into financial red flags, the importance of setting boundaries, and why financial independence is the ultimate act of self-worth. Pattie brings her signature no-BS approach, sharing personal stories and practical tools to help women stop confusing struggle with love—and start making smarter decisions in life, love, and money.

About Pattie Ehsaei:

Known as “The Duchess of Decorum” by her 1M TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei is one of today’s leading financial experts. Her viral content on financial literacy, workplace decorum, and female empowerment has earned over 8.1 million likes. With sharp, honest advice on everything from asking for a raise to maintaining independence in relationships, she’s become a go-to voice for women seeking financial and personal power.

Born in Iran and raised in Los Angeles, Pattie brings over 20 years of experience in finance—ranging from private equity to mergers and acquisitions. A lawyer by trade and currently Director of M&A Financing at a major national bank, she’s also a sought-after speaker and contributor to platforms like Forbes.com and MSNBC.

In her debut book, Never Date a Broke Dude, Pattie redefines the term “broke” to describe anyone lacking ambition, drive, commitment, or work ethic—regardless of income. The book is packed with real-world examples and actionable advice for building financial freedom and confidence in both your bank account and your relationships.

The book is divided into four parts:

• Money – Learn to implement a five-account system to manage cash flow, eliminate debt, repair credit, and invest with as little as $100

• Work – Guidance on dressing professionally, building confidence, retirement planning, and salary negotiations

• Power (Self-Worth) – Set boundaries, understand prenuptial agreements, and protect yourself from financial abuse

Available for pre-order in hardcover and audiobook formats on Amazon and Audible. For updates and exclusive content, follow Pattie on Instagram.

If you’re ready to take control of your finances and your future, Never Date a Broke Dude is your ultimate guide.

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, I sit down with Emmy Award–winning host, actress, and producer Nikki Boyer — the best friend and executive producer behind the hit Wondery podcast Dying for Sex, now adapted into a scripted limited series on FX, streaming on Hulu.

The series stars Academy Award–winning actress Michelle Williams, who first rose to fame on Dawson’s Creek and went on to star in films like Brokeback Mountain and The Fabelmans, as Molly Kochan. Nikki is portrayed by the brilliant Jenny Slate (Obvious Child, Everything Everywhere All at Once), and Sissy Spacek, who won an Academy Award for her role in Coal Miner’s Daughter, plays Molly’s mother, Gail.

Nikki shares the real story behind how Dying for Sex came to life, what it was like helping her best friend Molly reclaim her joy, her sexuality, and her voice while navigating a terminal cancer diagnosis, and why she was determined to bring Molly’s story to an even wider audience through this beautiful, bold television adaptation.

We dive deep into friendship, grief, healing, laughter, and legacy — and how Dying for Sex continues to teach the world about living fearlessly, loving boldly, and embracing life even through its most heartbreaking moments.

Whether you’ve experienced loss, walked beside a loved one through hardship, or simply want to be inspired by the power of authentic connection, this conversation will stay with you long after it’s over.

In this powerful episode of Fearlessly Authentic, Jodi sits down with Brandon Ord, the creator behind @brandonclearminds, whose viral content on narcissistic abuse and healing has struck a chord with millions. Brandon opens up about how his own experience shaped his mission, and together they dive into:

• What narcissism really is—and how to spot it

• The difference between overt and covert narcissists

• The manipulative tactics narcissists use to keep control, including feigning illness

• Why it’s so hard to leave—and how to do it without guilt

• The red flags to look for in dating

• And the green flags that tell you you’re finally in a safe relationship

If you’ve ever questioned your reality in a relationship, felt guilt for walking away, or needed validation for what you’ve experienced—this episode is for you. Brandon’s insights will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and more equipped to reclaim your peace.

In this episode of Fearlessly Authentic, I share why being intentional with your goals is the secret to real results. Your eating, training, and daily activity must work in harmony—not in conflict. If you’re training to build muscle but eating like you’re trying to lose weight, you’re sending mixed signals to your body. I explain how to align your food, movement, and mindset so they support one another and work with your goals—not against them. It’s time to get focused, get clear, and be intentional every step of the way.

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Why do we fall so hard, so fast—and then sometimes fall right out of love just as easily? In this episode of Fearlessly Authentic, host Jodi Harrison-Bauer explores what it really means to fall in love. Is it chemistry, timing, ego… or something deeper?

Drawing from personal reflections and observations (yes, even from dating shows like Love Is Blind and The Bachelor), Jodi unpacks the psychology and emotion behind romantic attraction, why we choose the people we do, and whether love is a state of mind—or a conscious choice.

Whether you’re in love, out of love, or somewhere in between, this conversation will get you thinking. Tune in to reflect, feel, and maybe even redefine what love means to you.

If you’ve ever questioned love—this one’s for you.

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform.

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