Today we are having a difficult conversation on Evolving Love. A conversation that puts the safety of our children in the spotlight.

To help us navigate this conversation, we have invited on child safety expert - Kristi McVee. Kristy was a Specialist Child Interviewer and Detective Senior Constable for 10 years in the Western Australian Police force.

Since leaving the police force, she has worked to provide parents, caregivers, and guardians with the education, tools and strategies they need to protect children from child sexual abuse and work towards a safer future for all kids.

Kristi has written a book entitled “Operation Kidsafe”, and hosts the podcast – “Conversations with Kristi”.

Kristi McVee Links:

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Important Resources:

If you feel affected by this episode and the themes discussed, please do not hesitate to reach out to these great resources:

United States:

* Childhelp USA:

* Provides a national hotline, crisis intervention, information, and referrals.

* Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

* Website: childhelp.org

* The National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):

* Offers confidential support for survivors of sexual violence.

* Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE

* Website: rainn.org

Australia:

* Bravehearts:

* Focuses on preventing child sexual assault and supporting survivors.

* Helpline: 1800 272 831

* Website: bravehearts.org.au

* Kids Helpline:

* A free, confidential 24/7 online and phone counseling service for young people aged 5 to 25.

* Helpline: 1800 55 1800

* Website: kidshelpline.com.au

England:

* NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children):

* Provides a helpline, online resources, and support services for children and adults concerned about child abuse.

* Helpline: 0808 800 5000

* Website: nspcc.org.uk

* Childline:

* A free, confidential helpline for children and young people.

* Helpline: 0800 1111

* Website: childline.org.uk

Deepa is a Filipina-Indian author living in Amsterdam and her writing explores the balance between being a mother, wife, girlfriend, daughter, adventure, and herself - all at the same time.

This release is her first book, but you can also find her writing on Substack at - Letters by Deepa

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Deepa’s Links

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