Let me ask you something real: What do you do when you’ve finally figured out who you are—finally gotten aligned—and now the people closest to you are still responding to the version of you that no longer exists?

This one is for the woman who’s had the audacity to evolve—and is now feeling the pressure of everyone wanting her to go back to who she was.

In this episode of Tell Your Truth, Shamika Brown-Upshaw gets real about what it means to walk in your truth when the people around you are still relating to the old you. From personal stories to psychological principles and Biblical truth, this episode breaks down how to stay grounded when your growth feels like a threat to others. This is where your transformation gets tested—not because you’re weak, but because you’re strong enough to change.

If you’re in that sacred and dangerous space between who you were and who you’re becoming—this is your episode.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why your growth can feel like rejection to others
• The psychology behind resistance from loved ones
• The spiritual, emotional, and neurological truths about identity shifts
• Practical steps to stay in alignment when you’re being pulled back

Key Affirmation: "I trust who I’ve become. I honor this healed version of me. I protect her peace, her power, and her path. I am no longer available for roles that require me to forget who I am. And I will not shrink her to fit old expectations no matter who wants me to. She is not up for negotiation."

Takeaways

• You've done the work, but the world may not be ready.
• Alignment is about honesty, not perfection.
• Your growth can make others uncomfortable.
• You are not responsible for others' discomfort with your growth.
• The pull of the familiar can be strong.
• Your boundaries highlight others' lack of them.
• Transformation confronts everything built around who you were.
• You don't need to be the version of yourself that people remember.
• Awareness is your anchor in maintaining alignment.
• Speak life over yourself every day.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery

02:54 Understanding Alignment and Its Challenges

06:13 The Impact of Change on Relationships

11:13 Psychology of Growth and Resistance

15:57 Practical Steps for Staying Aligned

20:11 Affirmations and Moving Forward

Ready to Go Deeper? If you’re done with the tug-of-war between the old and new you—let’s talk.

Book a Complimentary Soul Goals Clarity Call with me. Let’s uncover what’s blocking your alignment and create a plan to walk fully in your purpose.

A Soul Goal is not just a dream—it’s a divine assignment. The vision God placed in your heart before the world told you to shrink.

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