In Episode 51 of the Tickety Boo Podcast, we’re diving into one of the most painful (and confusing) patterns in relationships — chasing the very people who reject us, disrespect us, or make us feel small.

You’ve probably said it yourself:

“I know they’re not good for me… so why can’t I let go?”

This week, Andy, Ian and Lynn unpack what’s really behind this cycle — and no, it’s not just low self-esteem.

We explore:

• The childhood roots of chasing emotional unavailability

• How rejection triggers survival instincts in the brain

• The myth that “if I just love them enough, they’ll change”

• Why validation from the wrong person can feel more addictive than love from the right one

• And most importantly — how to stop giving your energy to people who only drain it

💥 Raw, relatable, and deeply human — this episode is for anyone who’s felt stuck in a cycle of chasing love, approval, or closure from people who were never capable of giving it.

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