In this soul-checking episode, Lindsay Brown gets real about the dangers of playing house without a covenant. Are you living like a wife while being labeled “just his girl”? Are you investing in a man who hasn’t made a God-honoring commitment to you?

This episode calls women back to standards, to clarity, and to their divine worth. Lindsay breaks down why cohabitation without marriage leads to confusion, how to realign your choices with your values, and what the Bible says about awakening love too soon. Because you weren’t born to audition. You were born to be chosen.

Here’s What We’re Unpacking

💜 Why living with a man before marriage puts your spirit at risk

💜 The difference between access and actual commitment

💜 How to reset your boundaries and reclaim your voice

💜 Why covenant protects, while convenience deceives

💜 How to stop “almost being chosen” and start walking like God’s woman

Key Scripture References

📖 Song of Solomon 8:4 – “Do not awaken love before it so desires.”

📖 Proverbs 14:1 – “The wise woman builds her house…”

📖 Song of Solomon 4:7 – “You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.”

Quotes to Remember:

You are not a layaway wife.

Stop being a placeholder when you’re called to be a promise.

Proximity isn’t protection. And access without covering is spiritual exposure.

God won’t bless confusion or compromise.

Engagement Question:
Sunshine, what boundaries do you need to reset in your relationship?
Drop your reflection on IG @sunshinewhy. or FB @thelindsay.brown.

CTA (Call to Action):
Share with a Sunshine who needs this truth.
Tag @thelindsay.brown

Thank you for listening. Enjoy today!