You’re not cursed, Sunshine—there’s just a pattern you haven’t healed yet.

In this episode, Lindsay breaks down why smart, faithful, well-meaning women keep choosing the wrong men—emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or just plain wrong. If it feels like déjà vu in your dating life, this episode is for you. Let’s identify the roots and start shifting the story.

Overview
You’ve prayed, journaled, and even fasted… yet the same kind of man keeps showing up. This episode is your wake-up call and your reset. Lindsay shares the reasons why emotionally mature women still fall for emotionally immature men—and how to stop the cycle. You’ll learn how self-awareness, identity, and femininity all play a role in what (and who) you attract.

💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode
• Why your attraction might be tied to unhealed parts of you
• The emotional difference between effort and intimacy
• How to shift from performing to attracting
• How to guard your heart with wisdom, not walls

🛑 Sunshine PSA
If he’s confusing, it’s not chemistry—it’s a red flag. Stop ignoring what’s loud and clear because you’re afraid of starting over.

📖 Scripture Reference
Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

📌 Coaching Moment
Would the woman you’re becoming even be impressed by the man you’ve been chasing?

💬 Sunshine to Sunshine
What pattern have you recognized in your past dating decisions? DM @sunshinewhy or share using #TheLindsayBrownShow — your story might help another Sunshine.

📢 Call to Action
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Thank you for listening. Enjoy today!