I have been drawn to Jeffrey's messages and approaches ever since I stumbled upon them on social media. Their message, that, "there is nothing wrong with you" stuck at something I was having a hard time dealing with. I have felt for most of my life that there is something wrong with me, and therapy and self-help were going to fix it. Except it didn't. It just perpetuated the idea that there is something wrong with me, and it can't be fixed. And Jeffrey's message cut through the BS to offer perspective and lived experience that made sense to what I was going through. After several rounds of coaching with Jeffrey and reading both of their books, I invited Jeffrey on the podcast to speak about their life and our time working together. We get into conversations about lived experiences of feeling alone and isolated as queer and non-binary people, things to look out for to not use self-hate in your process of self-understanding and explore why people see the combination of kindness and queerness to be so dangerous. I feel like shared experiences can help each other feel less alone and hearing about Jeffrey's life and their experiences has helped me feel less alone and make sense of mine. Jeffrey Marsh's TikToks and compassionate short-form videos have over one billion views. Jeffrey is a bestselling author, viral TikTok and Instagram star, nonbinary activist, and LGBTQ keynote speaker. They were the first nonbinary public figure to appear on national television, being interviewed on Newsmax in 2016, and they were the first celebrity activist to use they/them pronouns.