Ashley and Priya get real about what it takes to feel in control of your money. They unpack why traditional budgeting rarely works, how to think about spending in terms of happiness instead of guilt, and what it means to be a true financial adult. Ashley shares insights from her 30-Day Money Cleanse and Financial Adulting, along with stories about navigating money in relationships, planning for kids, and redefining what financial readiness actually looks like.

The conversation blends practical advice with real-life honesty that’s the right kind of approachable.

Takeaways:

• How to rethink budgeting as a happiness allocation instead of a restriction
• Why understanding your (and your partner’s) money story matters more than splitting hairs over expenses
• The real costs of planning for kids—and how to know when you’re actually ready
• Simple ways to track and reflect on spending without turning it into a second job
• Participants save an average of $950 in the first month using the method outlined in Ashley’s first book, The 30-Day Money Cleanse

  
  

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Guest Bio:

Ashley Feinstein Gerstley, CFP®, is a personal finance expert, speaker, and the author of the award-winning books Financial Adulting and The 30-Day Money Cleanse. She founded The Fiscal Femme to get women wealthy and has helped thousands of people feel financially confident, achieve major financial goals, and destress their relationships with money.

Guest Links:

https://www.instagram.com/thefiscalfemme/

https://www.thefiscalfemme.com/money-club

https://www.instagram.com/howdoyouaffordthis/

30 Day Money Cleanse: https://a.co/d/dVzsbgC

Financial Adulting: https://a.co/d/bYsUqub

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