Alt titles: "Don't get finger banged in the hot tub at Spa Castle" and "Getting railed up the butt by a strap-on (for a cis white man) is the ultimate act of feminism." Rachel and Kirsten talk to Reid Mihalko -- internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Rachel and Reid talk about their 20-year friendship (and sometimes sex), and how their outlooks on sexual health have been impacted by play parties and the poly community. The three extensively discuss the destigmatization of / how to have safer sex conversations -- Reid and Kirsten even practice having one right on the show! Reid shares his experience and process of being held accountable for causing harm. Rachel and Kirsten commiserate over their struggles with dating app culture and their boundaries around sexual conversations (even though they tell a million sex jokes on stage). And lastly, of note, Kirsten has her ankles in the air for most of the episode.

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Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien

Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green