Ever noticed how the harder you try to get people to like you, the less it works?

In this episode, Will and Matt unpack that strange truth with stories that hit close to home—from a text sent to the wrong “Joaquin” to witnessing a powerful moment of generosity at the grocery store. Through it all, they share how real influence doesn’t come from trying to impress. It comes from presence, consistency, and care.

This episode isn’t a how-to guide. It’s a conversation about what actually works in relationships, in work, and in life. It’s about becoming someone worth knowing, not someone trying to be liked.

0:00 – Intro & Reunion: "We’re back for Episode 20"
3:00 – Maui Reflections & Fulfillment vs. Freedom
6:00 – Vacation Length, Purpose & Personal Rhythm
9:00 – Insecurity, Age, and Self-Awareness in Your 20s
12:00 – Growth, Perspective, and Getting Small in a Big World
15:00 – The Joaquin Mix-Up: Texting the Wrong Guy
18:00 – Silent Service at the Grocery Store
21:00 – Helping Others Without Recognition
24:00 – Givers, Takers, Matchers: Relationship Audit
27:00 – The Power of Presence & Turning Off the Phone
30:00 – Intentional Friendship and Investing Without Expectation
33:00 – Authenticity vs. People-Pleasing: What’s the Difference?
36:00 – Sacrificing Comfort vs. Serving With Heart
39:00 – Bars, Noise & Real Connection Challenges
42:00 – Where You’ll Meet the Right People
45:00 – Imago Dei, Big Papa Confidence & Final Takeaway

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