Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

Q1: How do I move to a more secure attachment style? How do I communicate with my avoidant partner?
Q2: How do I handle self-doubt and build confidence?
Q3: What are relationship tips for partners who both struggle with depression?

Kim's next virtual workshop: How to Manage Guilt & Shame. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder

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Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ 

Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

Q1: My partner abused me for 8 years and says he has changed. How do I know the change is real?
Q2: My boyfriend and I go in cycles where he cheats, acts devastated when caught, we get back together, and then he does it again.
Q3: My father-in-law treated me horribly during my postpartum, and now I want to draw boundaries with him before our next child. How do I get my husband on board with this?

Kim's next virtual workshop: Healing Betrayals & Infidelity. To register or watch the replay: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder

Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops:  https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual 

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ 

Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

My partner avoids me and shuts down. How do I handle this being anxiously attached?
My partner will not commit to marrying me, even though I communicated marriage being a priority early on. What should I do?
I often take on tasks that no one else wants to do, like a martyr, and then feel resentful toward my friends. Where does this come from?

Are you frustrated that therapy is too expensive or every therapist you pursue has a waiting list? Then come work with me in my private workshop community. In my live virtual workshops, I teach you tools for managing triggers, increasing self-esteem, and improving communication in your relationships! Register now to work with Kim in her live workshops: https://engineering-love.mn.co/share/gqt40jODluLg4kyp?utm_source=manual 

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/ 

Welcome to "Engineering Love," a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

How do I be empathetic with my partner?
How do you support someone who is grieving or sad?
How do I stop self-sabotaging?

To book a complimentary consultation with Mason: https://kim-polinder.clientsecure.me/

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

• I'm caught in the middle between two people not speaking to each other
• How can my partner and I prevent microaggressions toward each other?
• How can I avoid feeling guilty when I draw boundaries?

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

• How can you be your own source of happiness?
• How can I practice self-love while being in a relationship?
• How do you handle constantly comparing yourself to other people?

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

• How do you handle anger and resentment toward the father of your child who left and never came back?
• How do you save a marriage after having multiple infidelities and truly want to change your ways and reconcile?
• How do you decide to end a longstanding friendship, and how do you communicate that to the friend and mutual friends?

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder 

Welcome to Engineering Love, a relationship podcast where Kim helps you build better connections by troubleshooting communication and conflict resolution.

This episode highlights these questions:

• How do you handle it when your partner doesn't respond to text messages or communicate throughout the day?
• Can a marriage survive multiple affairs?
• My partner wants a future with me, but feels I'm not meeting her standards. She wants a "perfect" relationship and is never satisfied.

Kim's website: https://beacons.ai/kimpolinder 

Kim's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kp_counseling/ 

Kim's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kp_counseling108 

Kim's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kp_counseling108 

Podcast website: https://www.engineeringlovepodcast.com/

Submit a question for the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/KimPolinder