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  • How to Listen to Your Anger Without Losing Your Softness. Ep.| 64

    How to Listen to Your Anger Without Losing Your Softness. Ep.| 64
    2026/05/11
    In high-conflict or "stuck" marriages, women often spend a massive amount of "emotional currency" trying to get their partners to see, hear, or value them. If you are in the 'Angry Phase,' don't apologize for it. It is the fire that is forging your new sword. This episode is on 'Why Soft-Hearted Women Reach Their Limit Too—and Why You Shouldn’t Ignore It'. Thank You! For listening. ⁠I’m Mav ‘Yemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach Stop living like roommates and start thriving as partners. This podcast is designed for women, couples and individuals seeking a deeper, more professional approach to relationships and marriage. We address the root causes of rejection, anxiety, and the "losing strategies" that keep couples stuck in cycles of disharmony. If you are ready to break painful patterns in your parenting or your relationships, you are in the right place. Grounded in faith and over a decade of clinical experience, we share the techniques and insights needed to restore trust and rediscover emotional intimacy. Move forward with the confidence that your relationship can be a place of hope and healing once again. WHAT NEXT? 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Feeling like roommates? I help women and couples in Ballarat and globally move from disconnection to deep partnership. Through Relational Therapy and faith-led wisdom, we heal the inner patterns holding your marriage back. Transform your relationship without losing your edge. Book your online session today. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Why is it that someone who has spent years being kind, accommodating, patient, forgiving, and endlessly understanding… suddenly becomes angry, reactive, rigid, or even entitled once they start setting boundaries? People around them often say: “You’ve changed.” And honestly? Sometimes they have. But not always in the way people think. Sometimes what we’re witnessing is not a person becoming cruel. It’s a person finally becoming visible. Today I want to unpack: why formerly boundaryless people often swing into anger why resentment can suddenly explode after years of silence the difference between healthy boundaries and punishment and how people can move from emotional over-functioning into grounded self-respect without becoming hardened. This conversation is especially important for people healing from: emotionally unequal relationships codependency chronic people pleasing emotionally unavailable partners family enmeshment and long-term self-abandonment. Let’s get into it. PART 1 — THE PERSON WHO NEVER HAD BOUNDARIES Many people who struggle with boundaries were not taught that their needs mattered. They learned very early that love was earned through: caretaking accommodating keeping the peace staying quiet not being “too much” or managing other people’s emotions. So they become incredibly adaptive. They become the one who: understands everybody forgives everybody waits patiently explains away bad behaviour keeps relationships functioning. But underneath that adaptation is often a tremendous amount of grief. And eventually something happens. The body gets tired. The nervous system becomes exhausted. The person starts realising: “I’ve spent years showing up for everyone else while abandoning myself.” That awareness changes everything. Now here’s where things get interesting. The first version of boundaries is rarely calm. I want people to really hear this. The first version of boundaries often comes out: angry rigid emotionally loaded reactive and sometimes even entitled. Why? Because this person is not only learning boundaries. They are also releasing years of: suppressed resentment hurt exhaustion invisibility disappointment humiliation and emotional loneliness. That anger didn’t appear overnight. It accumulated quietly over years. PART 2 — THE OVERCORRECTION PHASE When someone has spent years in self-abandonment, the nervous system often overcorrects. They swing from: “I never matter.” To: “Now it’s all about me.” And this is where many people become confused. They think: “Maybe boundaries are making me selfish.” Not necessarily. Often what’s happening is the person has not yet learned how to hold boundaries calmly. They only know two states:...
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    11 分
  • EP 63 | Why Communication Breaks Down in Marriage—and How to Repair It

    EP 63 | Why Communication Breaks Down in Marriage—and How to Repair It
    2026/05/04
    Let’s be honest. No one gets married or enters a long-term partnership with the goal of becoming polite strangers. Yet, it happens. Why? We are going to look at why this happens, the "losing strategies" that keep us stuck, and how we can move back into the warm, connected harmony that God intended for partnership. Thank You! For listening. ⁠I’m Mav ‘Yemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach Stop living like roommates and start thriving as partners. This podcast is designed for women, couples and individuals seeking a deeper, more professional approach to relationships and marriage. We address the root causes of rejection, anxiety, and the "losing strategies" that keep couples stuck in cycles of disharmony. If you are ready to break painful patterns in your parenting or your relationships, you are in the right place. Grounded in faith and over a decade of clinical experience, we share the techniques and insights needed to restore trust and rediscover emotional intimacy. Move forward with the confidence that your relationship can be a place of hope and healing once again. WHAT NEXT? 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Feeling like roommates? I help women and couples in Ballarat and globally move from disconnection to deep partnership. Through Relational Therapy and faith-led wisdom, we heal the inner patterns holding your marriage back. Transform your relationship without losing your edge. Book your online session today. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT 0:00 – 2:00 If you’re listening to this, it’s likely because the vibe in your home has shifted. Maybe the laughter has been replaced by a heavy silence, or perhaps you’ve noticed that every conversation feels like walking through a minefield. You aren't just "going through a phase"; you’re experiencing what many call the "roommate syndrome"—where two people who love each other begin to live parallel lives rather than a shared one. In my work here in Ballarat Victoria, I see couples every day who are exhausted from the bickering. Today, I want to talk to you directly—with respect and with hope. We are going to look at why this happens, the "losing strategies" that keep us stuck, and how we can move back into the warm, connected harmony that God intended for partnership. This is a space for people of faith, and for anyone who values the sanctity of a committed life. Let’s get to work. 2:00 – 8:00 | The Problem: Why We Get Stuck Let’s be honest. No one gets married or enters a long-term partnership with the goal of becoming polite strangers. Yet, it happens. Why? In relationship therapy, specifically within the Relational Life framework, we look at the "dance." You have a part, and your partner has a part. Often, when we feel under threat or unheard, we retreat into what I call "survival skills" from our past. The losing strategies we often use are: You’d rather win the argument than win your partner back. Trying to force your partner to be who you want them to be.Venting every frustration without a filter, thinking it’s "honesty" when it’s actually hurtful.Hurting them because they hurt you. Building a wall and living behind it. When we use these, you might feel superior—like you’re the sane one—or you might feel worthless and victimized. Neither of these is the place where love grows. Love grows when we are "Same-As"—two imperfect people standing on level ground. 8:00 – 15:00 | The Solution: The Relational Reset So, how do we fix it? It starts with "joining through the truth." It’s about looking at your part of the dance with radical compassion and humility. Technique 1: The Communication Reset Instead of "You always do this," we move to "I feel disconnected when this happens." We learn communication techniques that allow us to speak so our partner can actually hear us, rather than defend themselves. It’s about shifting from the "Adaptive Child" (who reacts out of fear) to the "Functional Adult" (who acts out of values). Technique 2: De-escalating the Conflict Conflict is inevitable; combat is optional. I teach couples in my 4-week program how to spot the "vicious cycle" before it spins out of control. It’s about having the maturity to say, "Hey, we’re doing that thing again. Let’s breathe." The Faith Perspective: For my ...
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    15 分
  • EP. 62 | The Third Person in Your Marriage: Betrayal & How to Regain Self Confidence?

    EP. 62 | The Third Person in Your Marriage: Betrayal & How to Regain Self Confidence?
    2026/04/27
    The Third Person in Your Marriage Isn’t Who You Think. It is a "contract" you never signed, yet you’ve been living by its rules for years. In this house, there are three people in the bed: you, him, and the ghost of the third party’s expectations. Listen closely to this episode. I hope it blesses you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel Adeyemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together. Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible. Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope. WHAT NEXT? 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women and Couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom. TRANSCRIPT 00:00 – 03:00 | Segment 1: The Definition & The Shock Lats discuss an issue that often stays hidden behind closed doors and "polite" social media posts. We’re talking about the Three-Person Marriage. What is it? It’s not just about a physical affair. A three-person marriage is any dynamic where your partner has granted a third entity—be it an affair partner, a parent, or even a toxic addiction—the same or higher priority than the marriage covenant. It is a "contract" you never signed, yet you’ve been living by its rules for years. The Scope: We see this in infidelity, yes, but we also see it in Addiction or familial Enmeshment. Imagine a husband who cannot protect his wife from his mother’s insults. Imagine a man who equates "leaving his betrayal partner with "abandoning" her. In this house, there are three people in the bed: you, him, and the ghost of the third party’s expectations. The Brain & The Shock: When you first realize this pattern—whether you overhear a conversation or finally "see" the neglect—your brain undergoes a massive trauma response. The Amygdala (your brain’s alarm system) goes into a state of "High Alert." It floods your body with cortisol. This is why, in the beginning, you feel "unreal." But once the initial shock wears down, the damage reveals itself. Nightmares and Night Terrors: Your brain is trying to process the "Betrayal Trauma" while you sleep. Hyper-Vigilance: You start scanning for threats. You can’t sleep because your nervous system no longer feels "safe" in your own home. 03:00 – 08:00 | Segment 2: The Pattern & The Symptoms Let's look at the symptoms. How do you know you are the "Third Person" in your own marriage? The Absence of Protection: You are humiliated or disrespected—perhaps by a family member or even a stranger—and your partner goes quiet. He doesn't stand up for you. He chooses "peace" with the outsider over "loyalty" to you. The Chameleon Effect: He is a "nice guy" to the world, a "people pleaser" at church, but at home, he is emotionally bland, avoidant, or passive-aggressive. The Weight of the Mental Load: You are the "Spark Plug." Nothing moves unless you push it. You manage the children, the repairs, the social life, and the spiritual life. He is simply a "Tenant" in the life you built. The Disappearing Act: When you try to address the "Three-Person" dynamic, he withdraws. He might get a migraine, go to sleep, or accuse you of being "aggressive" for setting a basic boundary. A Story of Revelation: Think of a woman who spent 10 years in this emotional warfare. She was intelligent, high-achieving, and beautiful. But she found herself in a small room, sleeping apart because her husband’s "passivity" had become a wall. She realized he had been "married" to his addiction or trauma for two decades. She wasn't his partner; she was a threat to his unhealthy enmeshment. 08:00 – 13:00 | Segment 3: The Danger of "Premature Repair" This is the most important part of today’s ...
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    13 分
  • EP. 61| How to Feel Safe and Grounded in Your Home - Create Your Sanctuary

    EP. 61| How to Feel Safe and Grounded in Your Home - Create Your Sanctuary
    2026/04/20
    Your environment is a mirror of your inner world—and healing begins with reclaiming your space. If anxiety, stress, or overwhelm have made your home feel like a burden, you're not alone. But what if the smallest shift—like organizing a corner or fixing a light—could set off a powerful chain reaction in your mental and emotional well-being? I hope this blesses you Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening. ⁠I’m Mav 'Yemi⁠, a licensed Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together. Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible. Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope. WHAT NEXT? 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Your environment is a mirror of your inner world—and healing begins with reclaiming your space. If anxiety, burnout, or overwhelm have made your home feel like a burden, you're not alone. But what if the smallest shift—like organizing a corner or fixing a light—could set off a powerful chain reaction in your mental and emotional well-being?In this episode, we uncover the often-overlooked connection between your physical surroundings and your capacity to heal and flourish. You’ll discover how neglecting your environment isn’t laziness—it’s the "survival tax" of living through emotional pain. Learn why your heavy, cluttered space is quietly keeping you trapped in survival mode, and the simple yet profound steps to reclaim control—one decision at a time.We break down tangible tactics: how reorganizing one room, adding a plant, or creating a cozy corner can activate your brain’s natural healing response. Jennifer’s story illustrates how tiny acts of ownership can lead to profound shifts—empowering you to stop waiting for external change and become the architect of your own peace. You’ll also hear about the "parallel living" mindset, where even amid chaos, you can build your own sanctuary and foster a sense of order within.This isn’t just about interior design. It’s about tuning your environment to support your mental health, reducing anxiety, and reigniting hope. Your home can become a refuge rather than a reminder of everything you’re enduring. If you're feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where to begin, this episode offers practical, actionable steps to start transforming your space—and your life.Perfect for anyone feeling stuck in a season of chaos, burnout, or emotional exhaustion. If you're ready to turn your environment into a powerful tool for healing, this episode is your blueprint. Reclaim your space, reclaim yourself. The journey to a calmer, more inspired life starts now. Keywords Emotional Healing for Christian Women, Reclaim Your Space, Mental Health and Environment, Overcoming Burnout, Anxiety Relief Tips, Home as Sanctuary, Healing Through Organization, Christian Wellness, Mindful Living, Personal Growth Journey #SurvivalTax #ReclaimYourSpace #EmotionalHealing #TraumaRecovery #MindfulEnvironment #CreateSanctuary #ParallelLiving #DeclutterYourLife #PeacefulHome #CreativeFlow
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  • EP. 60 | 10 Boundaries Every Wife Needs for Emotional Stability in Marriage

    EP. 60 | 10 Boundaries Every Wife Needs for Emotional Stability in Marriage
    2026/04/15
    Discover how embracing silence can transform relationships, empowering listeners to reclaim their peace. Explore ten pillars that guide the journey to self-growth and emotional freedom. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel Adeyemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together. Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible. Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope. WHAT NEXT? 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom. Key topics The misconception that raising your voice commands attention and respectThe sovereignty of silence as an emotional boundary masteryHow indifference can be a tool for freedom and emotional regulationThe importance of presence over volume in communicationThe role of boundaries for identity preservation in marriageThe necessity of individual integrity and loyalty to personal truthConsecration and the spiritual significance of your body as a boundaryWhy husbands’ crises are not emergencies and how to avoid ‘fixer’ burnoutThe importance of not mind-reading your partner and honoring their unique needsHow therapy and boundary setting facilitate growth, respect, and connection Timestamps : 00:13 - Myths about volume, understanding the power of silence 00:41 - Silence as emotion boundary mastery in marriage 01:08 - The importance of detachment and indifference for personal freedom 01:36 - Building reservoirs of mental and emotional energy through silence 02:34 - How to fix focus instead of marriage through boundary mastery 03:22 - The first pillar: transitioning from anger to indifference 03:56 - Unpacking anger reactions and engaging professional support 04:25 - Detaching from chaos by choosing indifference 04:56 - The second pillar: real presence vs. loudness in communication 05:24 - Reflecting on Queen Esther’s role — influence through feeling, not yelling 06:15 - The significance of emotional presence over volume in marriage 06:45 - Men’s learning through emotional disconnection, not shouting 07:28 - The third pillar: husbanding is internal, not coached into 08:07 - The difference between compliance and transformation 08:32 - The fourth pillar: emotional distance as a healthy adjustment 09:16 - The importance of giving space when boundaries are crossed 09:54 - The fifth pillar: stop playing Holy Spirit in your husband’s life 10:07 - Recognizing his role as a son and trusting divine guidance 10:49 - The sixth pillar: maintaining identity, boundaries, and independence 12:17 - The importance of integrity as the currency of intimacy 13:00 - Respecting personal truth in physical intimacy 14:07 - Loyalty to your truth, not superficial marriage realities 15:14 - Recognizing compliance versus true transformation in men 16:32 - The eighth pillar: consecration as a spiritual boundary 17:01 - Spiritually valuing and protecting your body 18:25 - The ninth pillar: your partner’s crises are not your emergencies 19:46 - Prioritizing your mental health over fixer role 20:57 - Letting consequences lead to growth instead of rescue 22:46 - The tenth pillar: stop mind-reading, start breathing for yourself 23:14 - The art of allowing your husband to articulate his feelings 24:47 - The power of therapy in fostering healthy communication 25:15 - Stop assuming you know your partner’s needs — let him discover them 26:14 - Channel your energy into your own goals and growth 27:30 - The importance of framed, therapeutic conversations 28:29 - Invitation to share this message; celebrating community milestones
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    28 分
  • EP .59 | Why You Both Are Living Like Roommates?

    EP .59 | Why You Both Are Living Like Roommates?
    2026/04/07

    If your relationship has slipped into a routine where love and intimacy feel distant, this episode is about understanding why emotional disconnection happens and what practical steps you can take to rebuild closeness.

    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel Adeyemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together.

    Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible.

    Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope.

    WHAT NEXT?

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email

    ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom.

    TIME STAMPS

    00:00 - Why couples live like roommates and the emotional consequences 00:33 - The impact of daily routines on emotional heat in marriage 00:37 - Recognizing the common signs of emotional distancing 01:07 - How busy life stages accelerate emotional disconnection 01:34 - Routine replacing connection and its long-term effects 02:03 - The shift from sharing a marriage to operating as household partners 02:19 - The quiet loneliness and potential for emotional affairs 02:49 - When emotional distance kills intimacy and desire 02:53 - Common patterns: emotional neglect, unresolved conflicts, and emotional safety loss 03:23 - How emotional distancing stems from feelings of being misunderstood or criticized 03:50 - Simple tips for regaining connection: intentional time, emotional safety, small acts of affection 04:15 - Why couples often give up trying and how to stay motivated 04:42 - The importance of small, intentional shifts over waiting for change 05:10 - Rebuilding emotional safety through better listening 05:40 - Restoring intimacy through small acts and emotional rebuilding 06:09 - Couples often carry emotional weight alone and get discouraged 06:39 - Recognizing the patterns and the importance of professional help 07:08 - How guided conversations and counseling can transform a distant marriage 07:35 - Accessing support through in-person or virtual sessions 08:05 - The key message: distance doesn’t mean love is gone, just that it needs attention
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    9 分
  • EP. 58 | Why You Keep Having The Same Argument in Your Marriage

    EP. 58 | Why You Keep Having The Same Argument in Your Marriage
    2026/03/30

    Most couples think they are arguing about the topic.

    But usually, the topic is not the real problem....

    The good news is that this cycle can be changed.

    But it usually requires learning a new way of connecting...I hope this blesses you.

    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel ‘Adeyemi⁠, a Psychotherapist, Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together.

    Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible.

    Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope.

    WHAT NEXT?

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email

    ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom.
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    9 分
  • EP. 57 | Why Good People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships?

    EP. 57 | Why Good People Stay in Unhealthy Relationships?
    2026/03/24

    If you find yourself constantly adjusting, apologizing, or feeling like you’re raising your spouse, this conversation is essential. Staying trapped often stems from a hidden loyalty to effort and hope that the relationship can improve, but understanding these patterns can be your first step toward real change.

    This episode highlights the dangerous imbalance where one partner becomes the emotional caretaker, losing sight of shared responsibility and mutual respect.

    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.

    Thank You! For listening.

    ⁠I’m Mav 'Yemi⁠, a licensed Relationship & Marriage Counsellor and Faith -Based Coach

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, or loneliness. Imagine feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — walking through life with God beside you. That is the healing we begin together.

    Many people quietly struggle with rejection, anxiety, low self-worth, or the pain of past experiences. Some fear repeating painful patterns in their parenting or relationships. If that sounds familiar, please know that healing is possible.

    Through a biblical lens and compassionate conversations, this podcast explores how to rebuild self-worth, restore trust, and rediscover peace and clarity so you can move forward with confidence and hope.

    WHAT NEXT?

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅ Get resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private WhatsApp group. Send me a request by email

    ✅ ⁠ email⁠ - contact@wholesomecounselling.com

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    Connect with me, online for Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing, Interpersonal Therapy and faith-led wisdom.

    📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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    11 分