Episode 2: Eat the Whole Damn Pie

In this episode of Sisters in Law of Attraction, we’re talking about something most of us were never taught to do: take up space in our own lives.

We call it “eating the whole damn pie.” Translation: daring to live big, want big, and feel big — even when others settle for crumbs and judge you for wanting more.

We open with the question: What would you do if you knew you could not fail? For Christine, that answer used to feel impossible. Now? “I’d start a podcast.” (Hi. Here we are.) We talk about why stepping outside your comfort zone is the only way growth ever happens, and why “I’m fine” is usually fear in disguise.

Sam shares a story about a woman she met at the eye doctor — a single mom who had never flown before, dreamed of financial freedom, and described the feeling of winning the lottery: lightness, relief, peace. Sam reminds her that she can feel that now. That’s the essence of the Law of Attraction — the power of aligning your energy with what you want before it arrives.

We break down what we call the pie of success:

1. The Feels.

You have to feel the energy of the life you want before it shows up. You don’t manifest from fear — you manifest from belief.

2. The Vision.

Most people know what they don’t want, but few dare to name what they do want. We talk about defining your dreams — not in exact logistics, but in emotional clarity. I want freedom. I want joy. I want ease. You don’t need to know how; you just need to name it and trust the path.

3. The Action.

This is where dreams usually die. Everyone says “We should start a podcast someday,” but fear keeps them still. Fear of judgment. Fear of looking foolish. Fear of failing in public. We share how taking imperfect action changes everything — and how we pushed past our own fears to finally make this show real.

We also talk about critics — the people who live small and call your confidence “toxic positivity.” They’re simply uncomfortable with someone who dares to live big. We unpack why living fully isn’t delusion — it’s leadership.

Christine opens up about how fear used to keep her “safe”: afraid to fail, afraid to want more, afraid to lose what she had. She’s now rewriting that story — claiming that she and her family deserve comfort, joy, and peace. Sam shares how discomfort became her fuel: writing a book, running for public office, and failing publicly. Surviving it taught her that failure doesn’t define you — fear does.

We also talk about motherhood and the mirror our kids hold up to us. How can we tell them to live boldly if we don’t? How can we preach courage while quietly staying small?

The takeaway: You have nothing to lose by living big. Time passes either way. You can spend it waiting for the next bad thing, or you can spend it building something extraordinary.

Your homework:

• Ask yourself: If I couldn’t fail, what would I do?

• Write down two small actions you can take this week toward that goal.

You don’t need a perfect roadmap. You just need to move. The universe meets you halfway.

You are not here to nibble at life.

You are here to eat the whole damn pie.