Is your child new to sparring? This episode helps you turn those first shaky rounds into confident reps… with safety, patience, and a simple plan.

What you’ll learn

• Why “survival mode” is normal in early sparring
• The driving-lesson analogy that calms first-round nerves
• A quick gear and warm-up checklist parents can remember
• How to coach at home without being critical
• The one metric that matters most early on… consistency
• Josh’s first black belt tournament story and the light-bulb moment kids hit

Parent playbook

• Lead with patience. Praise effort and small wins.
• Ask, “What’s one thing you’ll try next round?”
• Let them figure it out in the ring. Be there, don’t rescue.
• Remind them to breathe. Then move. Then throw one clean combo.

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