When a relationship ends, the emotional toll can beoverwhelming. Yet, it is often the hidden financial entanglements that present the greatest hurdles. In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Chris Wilding, a regulated financial advisor andfounder of Unifi Financial, to pull back the curtain on the financial realities of separation.

As the very first male guest on the podcast, Chris brings a crucial perspective on how individuals - particularly women - can unwittingly compromise their futures during a divorce.

Gina and Chris explore the common pitfalls that occur whenemotion overrides logic, specifically the habit of fighting for immediate comfort, such as the family home, while completely overlooking long-term security, such as pensions.

Through real-world examples, Chris and Ginaillustrate how failing to seek early, independent advice can leave people vulnerable to manipulation, or worse, financial abuse. This conversation is a vital reminder that a marriage contract is inherently financial, and true resilience starts with understanding exactly what is on the table.

Key Takeaways

The Pension Trap

Many people prioritise retaining the matrimonial home without realising that a partner's pension may hold an equivalent, or even greater, long-term value.

The Importance of Early, Regulated AdviceRelying solely on a solicitor to handle the administrative side of a divorce can lead to missed opportunities. Independent financial advisors look beyond the immediate settlement to secure your future standard of living.

Uncovering Hidden Assets

From business valuations to tax-free cash withdrawals, Chris shares how hidden wealth or financial mismanagement can be uncovered and rectified - even after a court order has been issued.

Shifting from "Ours" to "Mine"

True financial awareness means knowing what iscoming in, what is going out, and refusing to sign anything out of convenience or pressure.

"A marriage is a financial contract as much as an emotional bond. When that agreement breaks down, protection requires moving past the immediate discomfort to look clearly at the long-term facts."

Connect with Unify Financial:

Website: Unify Financial –Learn more about regulated financial guidance.

Connect with Gina Bee:

· Website: Gina Bee -Gina Bee provides specialised financial coaching and trauma-informed support tohelp midlife women navigate the emotional and financial challenges of divorce.

Life has a way of delivering several lifetimes of challenge all at once. For Mikki Rose, the transition into midlife was not a quiet passage, but a series of seismic shifts. From her former role as a supervisor at Amazon Logistics to becoming a full-time carer for her daughter following a traumatic accident, Mikki’s path has been defined by her resilience in the face of the unexpected.

In this episode of The Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Mikki to explore a story that many women will find startlingly familiar, yet deeply inspiring. Mikki shares the raw reality of navigating a "Final Destination" moment that changed her family’s life, followed by the profound betrayal of a marriage ending in the shadow of infidelity and illness.

Why your peace is a non-negotiable

As Mikki entered her menopausal years, she found herself grappling with more than just physical symptoms; she was dealing with the emotional weight of feeling unlovable and discarded.

This conversation delves into the often-ignored intersection of menopause, trauma, and the end of a long-term relationship.

Mikki has transformed her experiences into a resource for others, publishing journals and books on Amazon specifically designed for the menopausal and divorce niche. Her story is a testament to the fact that while we cannot always control the trauma that happens to us, we can decide how we build our lives in the aftermath.

Join us for an episode that is as much about the difficulty of leaving as it is about the incredible, quiet peace that waits on the other side.

Connect with Mikki:

Instagram: @the_pausecollective – Daily inspiration and community updates for the modern midlife woman.

YouTube: The Pause Collective Channel – Video insights on mindset, wellness, and navigating the unique challenges of the 40–60 transition.

Skool Community: The Pause Collective – An interactive space for women aged 40–60to navigate midlife together, find support, and access exclusive resources.

Gumroad: mikkia.gumroad.com – Explore digital guides, workbooks, and tools designed to help you hit "pause" and thrive.

Resources: Search Mikki Rose on Amazon for journals and books dedicated to menopause and divorce recovery.

In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with empowerment and confidence coach Julie Rowe to explore a feeling many women know intimately but rarely discuss: the insidious sense of emptiness that persists even when life looks successful on paper.

Julie shares her personal journey from being a high-functioning people-pleaser to discovering how a "masculine" approach to personal growth often leaves women feeling more overwhelmed than empowered. Together, they dismantle the fairy tales we are taught to believe and look at the practical reality of reclaiming your identity after divorce, loss, or significant life transitions.

About Julie Rowe

Julie is an empowerment coach with over a decade of experience helping women step into their power. By mirroring subconscious patterns and providing a supportive growth environment, she assists her clients in transitioning through life’s most difficult phases with renewed self-belief.

Julie is offering listeners a free Five-Day Self-Audit course designed to help you rediscover your natural talents, passions, and expertise. Find the links to the workbooks and her website in the show notes below.

Connect with Julie:

Free Resource: Self-Audit Course – Get exclusive access to the Free Self-Audit course designed to help you gain clarity and take the first step toward empowerment.

Website: empoweredwomengroup.com – Explore the full range of programs, coaching, and community resources.

Facebook Group: Empowered Women Community – Join the private group to connect with like-minded women and share your journey.

Instagram: @julierowecoaching – Connect with Julie for expert guidance on building personal resilience, navigating leadership challenges, and developing the mental strength to thrive in high-pressure environments.

Email: contact@empoweredwomengroup.com – Reach out directly for enquiries or support.

In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Jo Searle, a woman whose journey through separation and divorce became the ultimate catalyst for a radical life transformation. Jo shares the raw and deeply personal story of how the "perfect storm" of the COVID-19 pandemic, a turbulent divorce, and undiagnosed ADHD led her into the arms of a toxic, covert narcissist.

Jo provides a candid look into the reality of narcissistic abuse - from gaslighting and serial infidelity to the "silent treatment" and stalking. She discusses the vulnerability that often follows a major life upheaval and how she eventually found the strength to break the cycle.

Through her recovery, Jo discovered the profound impact of somatic coaching and trauma therapy, eventually pivoting from a high-stress corporate career to becoming a qualified trauma-informed practitioner herself.

This conversation explores how Jo replaced old, subconscious patterns with discipline and self-love, even taking on the challenge of competitive bodybuilding at 46.

Jo’s story is a testament to the fact that no matter how "broken" you may feel, you have the autonomy to rewrite your future.

Connect with Jo:

Website: Future-Edge Therapy - Discover more about Jo’s therapeutic work and services.

Instagram (Mental Health): @lets_talk_trauma_with_jo - Follow for insights, advocacy, and conversations surrounding trauma.

Instagram (Personal & Fitness): @jo.searle13 - Go behind the scenes with Jo’s personal journey and bodybuilding.

In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, the two Gina's talk together, Gina Bee and Gina Trick.

We dive deep into the remarkable journey of Gina Trick, an online business and AI strategist who transformed a season of total loss into a life of absolute autonomy. Gina shares the raw and gripping story of how she lost her home, her car, and her business all in a single day following a traumatic breakup and a subsequent bankruptcy.

We explore the often-overlooked legal pitfalls of joint liability for unmarried couples and the crushing weight of domestic abuse that frequently hides behind closed doors. But more importantly, this is a story of resilience. Gina discusses how she rebuilt her world from a flat filled with boxes to a thriving seven-figure career, all while redefining what it actually means to be free.

Why You Should Listen

This conversation is a masterclass in reclaiming your power after life tears the script away. Whether you are navigating the aftermath of a split or looking to build a business that serves your soul rather than stealing your time, Gina’s insights offer a practical and emotional roadmap.

Understanding the Journey

Gina and our host reflect on the "work in progress" nature of healing. From the initial shock of losing everything to the "fire" that drives a second chance at life, this episode reminds us that we are never stuck in our stories.

We discuss the importance of being "trauma-informed" - which means having an awareness of how past distress affects current behaviour - and why finding the right "modality," or method of treatment, is essential for true growth.

Join us for an intellectual yet deeply human look at how to reset, rebuild, and finally choose a life that makes you happy.

Connect with Gina Trick:

Website: ginatrick.com – Explore Gina’s strategies for building a profitable, sustainable business without the burnout.

Facebook: Gina Trick Business Strategist & Mentor – Join the community for regular business insights and updates.

Instagram: @ginatrickstrategist – Daily strategy tips, behind-the-scenes content, and business inspiration.

LinkedIn: Gina Trick – Connect with Gina for professional networking and strategic mentorship.

Why do we often walk down the aisle already hearing the faint ticking of a clock? In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, our host Gina Bee sits down with Georgie Blackman, the founder of wellness brand GB Mindset, for a candid and deeply human look at the anatomy of a marriage that was never meant to be.

Georgie shares the story of her first marriage - a relationship that began with a childhood sweetheart and followed the "Disney" script of a white dress and a horse-drawn carriage. Yet, behind the scenes, a different story was unfolding. From the quiet realisation during the wedding planning that her need for connection wasn't being met, to the moment she confessed her intuition to her father in the carriage on the way to the ceremony, Georgie explores the heavy weight of social pressure and the "fairytale" expectations that often drown out our inner wisdom.

The Power of the Gut Feeling

This conversation delves into the "lifespan" of relationships and why we often stay long after the intuition says it’s time to go. Georgie and Gina discuss the generational shifts in how we view marriage, the impact of seeing "estranged but stayed" role models, and the evolution of self-awareness in the modern age.

Whether you are currently navigating a separation, reflecting on a past relationship, or simply looking to understand the mechanics of human connection, Georgie’s story is a powerful reminder that "starting over" is often the most courageous act of wellness you can perform.

About Georgie

Georgie is a paramedic, a trainee hypnotherapist, and the founder of GB Mindset, a wellness brand dedicated to helping individuals find balance and health. Based in the East of England, she uses her unique background in emergency medicine and mental well-being to host wellness events that encourage authenticity and self-care.

Connect with Georgie:

Website: gbmindset.co.uk – Explore Georgie’s work in Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy, SOMABreathwork, and trauma-informed coaching.

Instagram: @georgie_blackman – Follow for insights on mindset, sobriety, and rebuilding inner strength from the inside out.

We often imagine that abusive relationships begin with obvious warning signs, yet the reality is frequently far more subtle and disarming. In this episode of The Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Claire Smith, an inner power embodiment coach, to peel back the layers of a relationship that felt nostalgic and safe before it became a psychological labyrinth.

Claire shares her harrowing yet ultimately empowering story of a chance encounter with an old school acquaintance that spiralled into a cycle of gaslighting, financial manipulation, and a literal house fire.

Understanding the Architecture of Control

The conversation delves into the mechanics of narcissistic abuse and why even the most resilient individuals can find themselves trapped.

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Reclaiming the Power Within

Beyond the trauma, this episode serves as a guide for recovery and the importance of setting non-negotiable boundaries. Gina and Claire discuss Trauma Bond - the psychological phenomenon that makes leaving so difficult - and how to navigate the "eggshell walking" that defines life under control.

Whether you are currently questioning the health of your relationship or are years into your healing journey, this discussion offers a mirror to your experiences and a roadmap toward reclaiming your peace.

“Your peace is everything. Do not let anyone disrupt it ever again.”

Listen now to discover why you are more powerful than you think and how to take that first small step toward the life you deserve.

Connect with Claire:

The Power Shift Quiz: What’s Your Fear Archetype? – Take Claire’s signature quiz to identify the fears holding you back and discover how to shift into your power.

Website: claire-smith.com – Learn more about Claire’s coaching, "The Power Shift" methodology, and her work in personal transformation.

Facebook: The Power Shift – Join the community for live insights, discussions, and empowerment strategies.

Instagram: @clairesmithloves – Follow for a behind-the-scenes look at Claire’s life and daily inspiration on choosing love over fear.

In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast ®, Gina Bee is joined by Dr. Valerie Sussman, a retired paediatrician, who shares her personal journey of navigating and leaving a narcissistic relationship.

Dr. Sussman offers a unique perspective, highlighting the lack of training in recognising emotional and verbal abuse within the medical field. We delve into the subtle nature of covert narcissism, the gradual process of gaslighting, and the self-doubt that victims often experience.

Dr. Sussman's story underscores the importance of recognising these manipulative patterns and breaking free from the cycle of abuse.

This episode aims to empower listeners with knowledge and understanding, emphasising that anyone can fall victim to narcissistic abuse, regardless of their background or profession.

Dr. Sussman also discusses her forthcoming book, "Decoding Narcissism: A Survivor's Guide from A to Z," and her artwork, which visually represents the complexities of narcissistic abuse.

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