When a relationship ends, the emotional toll can beoverwhelming. Yet, it is often the hidden financial entanglements that present the greatest hurdles. In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Chris Wilding, a regulated financial advisor andfounder of Unifi Financial, to pull back the curtain on the financial realities of separation.

As the very first male guest on the podcast, Chris brings a crucial perspective on how individuals - particularly women - can unwittingly compromise their futures during a divorce.

Gina and Chris explore the common pitfalls that occur whenemotion overrides logic, specifically the habit of fighting for immediate comfort, such as the family home, while completely overlooking long-term security, such as pensions.

Through real-world examples, Chris and Ginaillustrate how failing to seek early, independent advice can leave people vulnerable to manipulation, or worse, financial abuse. This conversation is a vital reminder that a marriage contract is inherently financial, and true resilience starts with understanding exactly what is on the table.

Key Takeaways

The Pension Trap

Many people prioritise retaining the matrimonial home without realising that a partner's pension may hold an equivalent, or even greater, long-term value.

The Importance of Early, Regulated AdviceRelying solely on a solicitor to handle the administrative side of a divorce can lead to missed opportunities. Independent financial advisors look beyond the immediate settlement to secure your future standard of living.

Uncovering Hidden Assets

From business valuations to tax-free cash withdrawals, Chris shares how hidden wealth or financial mismanagement can be uncovered and rectified - even after a court order has been issued.

Shifting from "Ours" to "Mine"

True financial awareness means knowing what iscoming in, what is going out, and refusing to sign anything out of convenience or pressure.

"A marriage is a financial contract as much as an emotional bond. When that agreement breaks down, protection requires moving past the immediate discomfort to look clearly at the long-term facts."

Connect with Unify Financial:

Website: Unify Financial –Learn more about regulated financial guidance.

Connect with Gina Bee:

· Website: Gina Bee -Gina Bee provides specialised financial coaching and trauma-informed support tohelp midlife women navigate the emotional and financial challenges of divorce.

Life has a way of delivering several lifetimes of challenge all at once. For Mikki Rose, the transition into midlife was not a quiet passage, but a series of seismic shifts. From her former role as a supervisor at Amazon Logistics to becoming a full-time carer for her daughter following a traumatic accident, Mikki’s path has been defined by her resilience in the face of the unexpected.

In this episode of The Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with Mikki to explore a story that many women will find startlingly familiar, yet deeply inspiring. Mikki shares the raw reality of navigating a "Final Destination" moment that changed her family’s life, followed by the profound betrayal of a marriage ending in the shadow of infidelity and illness.

Why your peace is a non-negotiable

As Mikki entered her menopausal years, she found herself grappling with more than just physical symptoms; she was dealing with the emotional weight of feeling unlovable and discarded.

This conversation delves into the often-ignored intersection of menopause, trauma, and the end of a long-term relationship.

Mikki has transformed her experiences into a resource for others, publishing journals and books on Amazon specifically designed for the menopausal and divorce niche. Her story is a testament to the fact that while we cannot always control the trauma that happens to us, we can decide how we build our lives in the aftermath.

Join us for an episode that is as much about the difficulty of leaving as it is about the incredible, quiet peace that waits on the other side.

Connect with Mikki:

Instagram: @the_pausecollective – Daily inspiration and community updates for the modern midlife woman.

YouTube: The Pause Collective Channel – Video insights on mindset, wellness, and navigating the unique challenges of the 40–60 transition.

Skool Community: The Pause Collective – An interactive space for women aged 40–60to navigate midlife together, find support, and access exclusive resources.

Gumroad: mikkia.gumroad.com – Explore digital guides, workbooks, and tools designed to help you hit "pause" and thrive.

Resources: Search Mikki Rose on Amazon for journals and books dedicated to menopause and divorce recovery.

In this episode of the Divorce Reset Podcast, Gina Bee sits down with empowerment and confidence coach Julie Rowe to explore a feeling many women know intimately but rarely discuss: the insidious sense of emptiness that persists even when life looks successful on paper.

Julie shares her personal journey from being a high-functioning people-pleaser to discovering how a "masculine" approach to personal growth often leaves women feeling more overwhelmed than empowered. Together, they dismantle the fairy tales we are taught to believe and look at the practical reality of reclaiming your identity after divorce, loss, or significant life transitions.

About Julie Rowe

Julie is an empowerment coach with over a decade of experience helping women step into their power. By mirroring subconscious patterns and providing a supportive growth environment, she assists her clients in transitioning through life’s most difficult phases with renewed self-belief.

Julie is offering listeners a free Five-Day Self-Audit course designed to help you rediscover your natural talents, passions, and expertise. Find the links to the workbooks and her website in the show notes below.

Connect with Julie:

Free Resource: Self-Audit Course – Get exclusive access to the Free Self-Audit course designed to help you gain clarity and take the first step toward empowerment.

Website: empoweredwomengroup.com – Explore the full range of programs, coaching, and community resources.

Facebook Group: Empowered Women Community – Join the private group to connect with like-minded women and share your journey.

Instagram: @julierowecoaching – Connect with Julie for expert guidance on building personal resilience, navigating leadership challenges, and developing the mental strength to thrive in high-pressure environments.

Email: contact@empoweredwomengroup.com – Reach out directly for enquiries or support.