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  • You Can Be a Great Father, but a Horrible Person | w/ Quintin Harris | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 142
    2025/06/13

    In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and personal growth with host and special guest Quintin Harris. Through compelling dialogue, they explore the nuances of fatherhood, the importance of being present, and navigating the intricacies of marriage. Discover how personal experiences and shared wisdom shape their journey, and gain practical advice on effective parenting and relationship building. Tune in for an episode rich in life lessons and heartfelt moments. Don't forget to subscribe for more engaging conversations.


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Sun Show

    00:00:17 Meet Quentin Harris

    00:00:25 The Brotherhood at Concord

    00:01:38 Quentin's Role at Concord

    00:03:04 Family Dynamics and Challenges

    00:05:15 Growing Up in Baton Rouge

    00:07:08 College Life and Lessons Learned

    00:21:48 Marriage and Personal Growth

    00:28:40 Realizing Insensitivity in Relationships

    00:30:01 The Impact of Fatherhood

    00:36:04 Corporate Life vs. Home Life

    00:41:14 Marriage Challenges and Solutions

    00:49:45 Parenting Wisdom and Reflections

    01:00:37 Final Thoughts and Future Plans


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  • Double Standard King | Parenting, Relationships & Societal Expectations | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 141
    2025/06/07

    In this captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the realm of double standards. Designed to provide young boys and men with wisdom they can use today, this conversation addresses the real-life implications of double standards across parenting, relationships, and societal expectations. Discover Jay Black's and D John's personal experiences and candid thoughts on subjects such as the differing rules for sons and daughters, the unique dynamics in marital relationships, and the societal pressures young men face today. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that offers both heartfelt advice and relatable anecdotes. Subscribe now to stay updated with our insightful conversations!


    00:00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:00:28 Parenting Challenges and Curfews

    00:02:41 Double Standards in Parenting

    00:04:23 Curfews and Responsibilities

    00:06:29 Gender Roles and Expectations

    00:10:40 Teaching Life Skills

    00:14:09 Balancing Discipline and Freedom

    00:25:38 Navigating Double Standards in Relationships

    00:26:05 The Unspoken Rules of Marriage

    00:28:14 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned

    00:30:47 The Consequences of Double Standards

    00:41:42 Parenting and Double Standards

    00:47:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections



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  • You Graduated. Now What? | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 140
    2025/05/30

    In this captivating episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the profound conversations about fatherhood and the pivotal moments of their sons' recent high school graduations. They discuss the journey from adolescence to adulthood, the impact of newfound independence, and the responsibilities that come with it. Key topics include the emotional whirlwind of seeing their sons graduate, the importance of letting them face life's challenges to build character, and the realities of parenting double standards. Join the discussion as they share personal stories and advice, making this an essential episode for parents and guardians navigating similar paths. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest conversations!


    00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show

    00:31 Celebrating Our Sons' Graduation

    01:38 Balancing Family and Education

    02:48 Navigating Fatherhood and Expectations

    05:30 Preparing for the Next Chapter

    08:43 Reflecting on Parenting and Independence

    21:29 The Prom Experience and Generational Differences

    23:41 Building Your Future Self

    24:07 Time as Wealth: Avoiding the Money Trap

    24:57 Balancing Work and Life

    26:08 Learning from Mistakes

    26:51 Family Stories and Lessons

    29:24 Recognizing and Avoiding Danger

    30:31 Parenting and Protection

    37:03 Prom Night Reflections

    39:27 Preparing for Independence

    45:35 Final Thoughts and Resources


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  • It’s On Me | Navigating Life, Responsibility, and Parenting | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 139
    2025/05/12

    Welcome to another powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into what it truly means to take responsibility for our actions and lives. From the pressures of leading a family to the evolving challenges young boys face today, this episode sheds light on the idea that 'It's On Me.' Tune in as we discuss the importance of accountability, share personal stories, and offer invaluable advice to help young men navigate their paths. Don't miss this eye-opening conversation — like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on our latest episodes!


    00:00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:00:58 The 'It's On Me' Mentality

    00:03:17 Personal Reflections and Challenges

    00:06:59 Navigating Change and Uncertainty

    00:13:44 Parenting in a Changing World

    00:26:17 Reflecting on Military Experiences

    00:27:30 Parental Expectations and Realities

    00:28:15 Navigating Job Applications

    00:30:00 College Selection Challenges

    00:33:01 Teaching Accountability

    00:36:46 Handling School Incidents

    00:39:25 Parenting Reflections and Lessons

    00:47:26 Future Plans and Announcements#theDearSonShow #Fatherhood


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    51 分
  • Becoming a Comprehensive Man | Masculine Vulnerability w/ Nate Cottman | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 138
    2025/05/05

    In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, host D Johns engages in a profound conversation with Nate Cottman, a repeat guest known for his insights on masculine vulnerability and love. Join them as they discuss fatherhood, relationships, and the essence of intentional living. Nate opens up about his journey of personal growth, his thoughts on dating with intention, and the powerful lessons he's learned along the way. This episode is a must-watch for anyone navigating the complexities of marriage, fatherhood, and personal evolution. Don't miss out on these valuable insights and heartfelt moments. Make sure to subscribe to The Dear Son Show for more inspiring conversations!


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:18 Meet Nate Cotman: Masculine Vulnerability Prototype

    00:01:50 Discussing Nate's Book: Flowers from Forgotten Fields

    00:03:41 The Journey of Love and Relationships

    00:05:33 Navigating Modern Dating

    00:10:20 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships

    00:16:48 Masculine Vulnerability and Love

    00:21:07 Navigating Life's Potential and Grace

    00:22:18 Gender Expectations in Relationships

    00:25:41 Marriage, Divorce, and Personal Growth

    00:31:53 Fatherhood and Emotional Intelligence

    00:36:29 The Importance of Sexual Discipline

    00:40:14 Trusting Intuition and Overcoming Fear

    00:43:01 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


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    48 分
  • The Power of Fatherhood: Meaningful Conversations for All Men | Attention Grabber | The Dear Son, Show | Lost Ep
    2025/05/04

    Welcome to the Dead Son Show, where we dive deep into the essence of fatherhood, forefathers, those with and without fathers. Join hosts D. Johns and Jane as they share personal experiences, discuss connecting with their sons, and highlight the importance of affirmation and open communication. This episode goes beyond the surface, touching on crucial aspects such as the dangers of conflicting views on manhood, the importance of hugging your children, and the necessity of being a well-rounded role model. Whether you're a father or anticipating fatherhood, this conversation is rich with insights to help you build stronger, more meaningful relationships. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated as we journey through topics that shape futures and change perspectives.


    00:00 Introduction to the Dead Son Show

    00:34 Neighborly Bonds and Community

    02:31 Mock Jury Selection Experience

    03:45 The Importance of Jury Diversity

    06:51 Encouraging and Praising Our Sons

    10:04 Balancing Criticism and Praise

    12:25 Fatherhood Reflections and Personal Growth

    24:32 Discovering Hidden Talents

    24:55 Building Confidence Through Connection

    25:55 The Importance of Feeling Valued

    26:54 Understanding Self-Worth

    27:37 The Role of Fathers in Shaping Self-Worth

    28:53 The Impact of Parental Communication

    29:24 The Necessity of Open Conversations

    29:58 Addressing Sensitive Topics with Sons

    35:56 The Importance of Physical Affection

    37:22 Balancing Authority and Affection

    46:59 Encouraging Emotional Flexibility

    49:27 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting



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    51 分
  • Dear Son, I Won’t Always Be Here | Life Planning | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 137
    2025/05/02

    In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac hold an essential conversation about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover significant topics that affect us all: preparing for mortality, the importance of spiritual grounding, and the necessity of financial responsibility. They share personal stories and insights, emphasizing the need for transparent and early discussions on grief, loss, and life planning. Don't miss out on their invaluable advice and actionable steps to better navigate fatherhood and personal growth. Subscribe now to ensure you never miss an impactful episode.


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Updates and Reflections

    00:01:26 The Importance of Health and Mortality Awareness

    00:03:10 Preparing for Life's Uncertainties

    00:06:46 Conversations About Family Roles and Responsibilities

    00:10:33 The Necessity of Planning and Communication

    00:20:21 Dealing with Grief and Loss

    00:22:09 Planning for the Future

    00:24:24 Understanding Grief

    00:26:38 Parenting and Emotional Intelligence

    00:30:33 A Lesson in Perseverance

    00:36:34 Balancing Life's Priorities

    00:40:40 Spiritual and Financial Guidance

    00:43:19 Final Thoughts and Future Plans


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting



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    46 分
  • Invested In My Family | Entrepreneurship and Fatherhood w Xavier Miller | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 136
    2025/04/22

    In this powerful episode of The Dear Son, Show, our host, D Johns, engages in a deep and meaningful conversation with Xavier Miller, a remarkable guest who shares his unique life experiences. From growing up in the segregated neighborhoods of Chicago to joining the Air Force and eventually diving into entrepreneurship, Xavier opens up about the lessons he learned along the way. The discussion touches on the significance of fatherhood, the challenges of maintaining strong family relationships, and the invaluable advice received from elders. If you’re seeking wisdom on personal growth, leadership, and the delicate balance of life, this episode is a must-watch. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with more compelling conversations. God bless and peace!


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:20 Meet Xavier Miller

    00:00:46 Life in Chicago and Moving to Florida

    00:02:57 Joining the Military and Life Lessons

    00:04:37 Fatherhood Reflections and Lessons Learned

    00:13:16 Entrepreneurial Journey and Financial Wisdom

    00:21:21 Balancing Family and Business

    00:34:16 The Importance of Environment and Influences

    00:35:54 Protecting Innocence: A Father's Perspective

    00:37:33 Parenting Through Generations

    00:39:10 Marriage and Personal Growth

    00:43:16 The Reality of Relationships

    00:53:57 The Fear of Divorce

    01:06:46 The Importance of Headship

    01:13:11 Final Thoughts and Reflections


    #theDearSonShow #Fatherhood #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #entrepreneurship #cryptoinvestor #Parenting



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    3. Help through telling stories of it all




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    1 時間 18 分