Lindsay Perrin is back on Dear Bianca for the third time, and this one has it all. We go deep into her journey as a surrogate for two gay dads in NYC—from the very beginning to postpartum and everything in between. She opens up about what it was like being pregnant without a partner, how it compared to her pregnancies with her two kids, and the real highs and lows she faced along the way.

Of course, we couldn’t skip the fun stuff: Lindsay tells me about making a Hinge profile while pregnant (yes, really), what dating was like during that time, and what she’s actually looking for in a partner now. Younger women might still be her thing… but she also admits she has a thing for Kris Jenner post-surgery LOL.

And we wrap up by chatting about her 3rd annual NYC Lesbian Bar Crawl and what caused Lindsay and I had a little tiff that we hash out live on the mic.

So grab your headphones, get comfy, and let’s dive in.

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I just got back from the most beautiful trip through Europe with my girlfriend, and while I was away, I found myself reflecting a lot—not only on life, but on Dear Bianca and where this podcast is headed. In this episode, I open up about why I’ve decided to rebrand, how this next chapter feels true to who I am right now, and what you can expect from me moving forward.

This isn’t about leaving anything behind, but about expanding—creating space for more connection, more stories, and more of the everyday moments that bring us all together. I share my heart with you about why this shift feels so important and exciting, and I hope it helps you feel even more a part of the journey.

And I wrap up with details on the 3rd Annual NYC Lesbian Bar Crawl happening this weekend with Lindsay Perrin. It’s not just about a night out—it’s about meeting new people, celebrating our queer spaces, and building friendships that last.

So grab your headphones, get comfy, and let’s dive in.

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In this episode of Dear Bianca, I step away from our usual lighthearted conversations to reflect on two tragedies that captured national attention this week: the devastating death of Iryna Zarutska on the light rail and the fatal shooting of Charlie Kirk at Utah Valley University.

As a queer podcast community, I know these events bring up complicated emotions — grief, anger, even conflicting feelings about justice. But one thing is clear: celebrating violence is not who we are. In this episode, I talk about what these moments reveal about America’s broken systems, why violence cannot be the solution, and how our LGBTQ community can stay rooted in love, compassion, and humanity, even when the world feels upside down.

Join me for a heartfelt reflection on choosing joy over hate, kindness over cruelty, and remembering that our greatest power as a community has always been love.

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