You've told them what to do three times. They can recite it back to you. And in the moment, they do the same thing they've always done. They're not lazy — they're protected. This episode walks through the free worksheet that finds out what's actually holding them in place.

In this episode of Dealer Leadership, Jason Rigby walks through Why You Stay Stuck, a free worksheet for salespeople who know what to do and keep not doing it. Run it in a one-on-one: the salesperson names the moment they keep mishandling, figures out what their usual response is protecting them from, picks one small replacement, rehearses it, and tracks three real tries.

What's on the sheet:

1. Start with what's working — what they already do well with customers
2. Pick the moment — one recent customer moment they keep handling the same way
3. What the old way does for them — the no they avoid, the pride they protect, the hope they keep down
4. Which one is it, really? — they avoided it, the words weren't there, they never learned how, or they tried and it went badly
5. The different response — one sentence, one question, one call, small enough to survive
6. Practice it before they need it — out loud, with a partner, the awkward part twice
7. Three tries — track what happened and what they learned
8. The support that would actually help — and a review date with their coach

In this episode:

• Why repeating the same advice louder is not coaching
• The four things a stuck habit protects a salesperson from — including the one nobody talks about: hope
• Four kinds of stuck, four different fixes — and why treating all of them as attitude loses three out of four
• Why a veteran resists practicing a basic question, and how to make the step small enough that their pride survives it
• The question to ask before you give the same advice again: "What makes your usual response easier in that moment — and what would help you try something different?"

DOWNLOAD THE FREE WORKSHEET (3-page PDF):
https://dealerleadership.com/worksheets/why-you-stay-stuck.pdf

Print pages 1–2 for the salesperson. Page 3 is the coaching page — directions for the manager running it. Keep that one. Nothing on the sheet gets scored or filed.

More free worksheets for dealership leaders:
https://dealerleadership.com/resources/worksheets

THE BOOK BEHIND THIS EPISODE:
The thinking under this worksheet comes from How We Change by Ross Ellenhorn — why people stay the same even when staying the same is hurting them. Not a car book. It'll change how you coach anyway.
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Bring one stuck person, process, or number to a free 30-minute Leak Finder Session:
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Jason Rigby — Dealer Leadership
jason@dealerleadership.com

Your managers are either coaching your floor up or managing it into a ceiling. This 10-point self-check tells you which — before your next 1:1.

In this episode of Dealer Leadership, Jason Rigby walks through the Manager Self-Check, a free worksheet for dealership owners and GMs. Your manager rates himself on ten practices — Strong, Getting There, or Needs Work — and then you talk about the ones he marked Needs Work. No scores get posted. Nothing goes in a file. It's a coaching conversation, not a ranking.

The ten practices:

1. Coaches people, not just manages them
2. Gives the team clear direction every week
3. Lets people make decisions
4. Communicates so people actually hear it
5. Owns the numbers that matter
6. Talks about how people are doing and where they can go
7. Stays open to better ways
8. Works with the other departments
9. Improves the process
10. Recognizes good work in front of the team

In this episode:

• Why "sell more cars" is not direction — and what real weekly direction sounds like
• The difference between a manager who owns the result and a manager who explains the result
• Why "that's how we've always done it" kills more deals than a bad CSI score
• How one manager touching every decision turns himself into the bottleneck
• The 20-second huddle habit that gets good work repeated

DOWNLOAD THE FREE MANAGER SELF-CHECK (3-page PDF):
https://dealerleadership.com/worksheets/manager-self-check.pdf

Print it, keep page 3 — that's your directions page, the manager never sees it — and hand pages 1–2 to your manager before your next 1:1. Have him rate himself, talk through the Needs Work items, and ask what support would actually help. Revisit in 30 days.

More free worksheets for dealership leaders:
https://dealerleadership.com/resources/worksheets

Bring one stuck person, process, or number to a free 30-minute Leak Finder Session:
https://dealerleadership.com

Jason Rigby — Dealer Leadership
jason@dealerleadership.com

Your dealership can keep you busy all day while overdue follow-up, missed coaching, and unfinished promises pile up.

In this episode of Dealer Leadership, Jason Rigby explains how dealership sales managers can get ahead of the day: review what's behind, choose three priorities, assign owners and deadlines, and schedule one useful coaching conversation.

Learn how to catch appointment and delivery problems early, identify what a salesperson actually needs help with, and adjust your plan when the showroom gets busy.

Download the free Sales Manager's Daily Game Plan:
Get the printable worksheet

This one-page, black-and-white daily planner includes review checkboxes, space for priorities and coaching, a midday reset, and an end-of-day handoff. No signup required. Print a fresh copy for your next shift.