In this solo episode, I’m finally spilling the tea on my past dating life! The awkward first dates, emotional red flags, and the unexpected lessons that shaped the way I love today. You guys know I’ve talked about being married and divorced, maybe even having a crush or two… but you haven’t heard the full story... until now!
I’m sharing everything from a guy who pretended to be his twin (yes, really), to the moments that made me rethink my deal breakers and non-negotiables. We’re talking emotional availability, spiritual alignment, hygiene, therapy, masculinity, and the kind of love that makes you feel calm.

💬 In this episode:
– My most cringeworthy dates and why I gave second (and third) chances
– My top deal breakers (bad hygiene and no belief in God make the list)
– What emotional availability really looks like in a man
– Healthy masculinity vs. toxic control and how to tell the difference
– Why intentional effort > expensive gestures
– What “green flags” look like for me now
If you’re navigating dating in your 20s or 30s, I hope this episode gives you some clarity, some laughs, and a reminder that it’s okay to want more. You deserve a love that feels safe, steady, and aligned with who you are!
✨ Let me know: What’s YOUR biggest deal breaker in dating?
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