How do you trust love again after it’s let you down? How do you know the difference between rushing and divine acceleration?In this powerful episode of Daring Discussions, I sit down with a couple whose story is straight from heaven’s plot twist: Shon & Clarissa Hyneman met and married in 6 months. Together, they run to platforms Scary to Remarry and Loverfearlessly. Scary to Remarry helps singles and couples prepare for lasting love. Lovefearlessly creates resources that empower kids with biblical affirmations and confidence.In this episode we discuss:Life after divorceFalling fast—but on purposeLong-distance love that workedBlending families And what healing really looks like when done with GodIt’s not just a discussion...it’s a testimony.Subscribe for more real, raw, and righteous discussions about sex, faith, and the stuff we don’t talk about enough.

For the Season 3 premiere of Daring Discussions, we did something special — an intergenerational testimony service.

I am joined by three women in their 20s, 30s, and 60s, and together we all share our stories of sex, intimacy, and relationships.

Dr. Daniella Thorne, Dr. Cheryl Carr, and Sylvia Brooks sit down for a daring discussion that shows how God’s faithfulness spans every stage of life. One conversation, three generations, countless lessons.

Let’s talk about who we really are.

In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant S. Alise Moore — a licensed clinician who holds space with truth and tenderness. We’re discussing how our identity, spiritual formation, and personal history all come together (and sometimes clash) when it comes to how we see ourselves and show up in relationships.

We talk:

Confidence and embodiment (especially when the church never taught us how)

Healing from shame and identity confusion

How trauma messes with your sense of self

And what it looks like to finally find yourself

If you’ve ever wondered how to feel whole, holy, and human all at once… this #daringdiscussion is for you.

Let’s be real. Some of the deepest wounds didn’t come from the world, they came from people in the church.

In this episode, we’re getting real about the quiet harm caused by purity culture, silence around sex, and spiritual manipulation that left many of us carrying shame in our bodies and bedrooms.

We’re discussing what happens to folks who’ve been taught that desire is dirty, that modesty equals worth, and that sex is only holy when it comes with guilt. But sis… God’s design was never meant to feel like bondage.

Whether you’re deconstructing harmful beliefs, rebuilding trust in your own body, or just trying to figure out where Jesus fits in all this… this episode is for you.

We don’t shy away from the hard stuff, but we do it with tenderness, truth, and the kind of grace you deserve.

Because healing from religious trauma is holy work. And sex? It’s still sacred.

🎧 Press play. Take a breath. Let’s discuss Sex & Religious Trauma with Pastor ​⁠ .

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Whew! Being a godly woman means a lot of things to a lot of people, but who’s defining it? This week on Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Pastor Adara Sherron—wife, mom, and pastor—to get real about what it means to balance faith, femininity, and a little bit of spice.

We’re talking about:
💡 How to own your sensuality without losing your holiness
💡 Why confidence in the bedroom can be a form of worship too
💡 How to be a whole woman without apology

Sis, you can love God, love your husband, and love yourself fully. We’re getting into it. Hit play and bring your journal, because Pastor Adara did not come to play.

Sis, let’s be real—knowing what you want is one thing, but saying it out loud? That’s a whole other story.If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires, initiate intimacy, or just find the right words in the heat of the moment, this episode is for you. It’s the replay of my Art of Erotic Communication Masterclass, and we’re getting into it. For all of my shy wives, We’re discussing: How to overcome the awkwardness of asking for what you want Discovering your sexual personality Practical ways to build confidence in expressing your desires Tips for initiating intimacy (even when you’re the shy one) Why clear, honest communication can actually make sex way betterThis isn’t about becoming someone you’re not—it’s about learning how to be fully, beautifully, and boldly you with your partner... even as a Christian. This is a long one so settle in.Pull up, press play, and get ready to take notes. This is your time to step out of your shell and into the pleasure you deserve.

Is sex supposed to be this hard?

Let’s be honest...some of us said “I do” and still weren’t ready for what sex inside marriage would feel like.This week on Daring Discussions, we’re talking all things Sex & The Christian Wife with @alexisfreddyb . We discuss mismatched desire to pleasure guilt, and what it means to be a whole woman in a Christian marriage.Whether you were taught that sex is a duty, you’re trying to rediscover your sexual self after years of giving without receiving, or you’re just tired of feeling like you don’t have a voice in your own bedroom… this conversation is for you.We’re getting into:💍 The difference between duty and desire💍 What to do when your sex drive doesn’t match your husband’s💍 Why pleasure isn’t selfish—it’s sacred💍 How to communicate your needs without shame or shutdownYou can love Jesus, love your husband, and still be learning how to love yourself intimately.Press play and meet us at the intersection of faith, freedom, and God Given sexual joy!#SexAndTheChristianWife #DaringDiscussions #FaithAndSexuality #MarriedAndSaved #ChristianWifeLife #SexAndSanctificationAlexis Freddy Bhttps://alexisfreddyb.com/https://www.instagram.com/alexisfreddyb/

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Help Me, We Don’t Have Enough Sex (Workshop Replay)In this special episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sharing the full replay of my live workshop for Christian husbands navigating the quiet frustration of sexual dissatisfaction in a sexless marriage.We talk about the real reasons intimacy dries up, the emotional and spiritual toll it takes, and—most importantly—how to rebuild a marriage bed that’s full of connection, freedom, and mutual satisfaction.If you’ve ever felt unwanted, unseen, or unsure how to fix the growing gap in your marriage, this conversation is for you.No shame. No judgment. Just real talk, rooted in truth, healing, and hope.In this episode: • Why sexual frustration is deeper than just “wanting more” • The hidden impact of purity culture on married sex • How to lead with love, not pressure • Practical steps to rebuild desire, safety, and passion with your wife