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  • 1132 - The PERFECTS Method for Improving Self Esteem and Support

    1132 - The PERFECTS Method for Improving Self Esteem and Support
    2026/10/23
    00:00 Introduction to PERFECTS 00:56 P: Prudence 02:07 E: Endurance of Hardships 02:47 Respect, Forgiveness, and Earnestness 03:00 Compassion and Truthfulness 03:05 S: Selflessness with Boundaries Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 2 分
  • 1131 - How Childhood Trauma Impacts Adult Physical & Mental Health

    1131 - How Childhood Trauma Impacts Adult Physical & Mental Health
    2026/10/16
    0:00 Introduction to ACEs 1:05 Defining trauma and ACEs 3:28 Categorizing ACEs 9:09 Psychological impacts 17:28 Systemic and developmental effects 24:32 Prevalence and vulnerability 28:03 Physical and physiological impacts 31:24 Managing trauma symptoms 41:05 Attachment and cognitive impacts 52:53 Environmental and spiritual impacts 55:26 Assessment and treatment strategies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 4 分
  • 1130 - Exploring the Roots of Codependency Development

    1130 - Exploring the Roots of Codependency Development
    2026/10/09
    00:00 Introduction to Codependency 00:44 Core Concepts of Codependency 05:16 Case Study: Sally and Tom 09:11 Case Study: Jaime's Childhood 13:20 Case Study: Tommy's Family 18:08 Requirements for Codependency 20:05 The Production Facility 27:31 Impact on Self and Relationships 31:45 Codependency vs. CPTSD vs. BPD 37:27 Strategies: Building Safety 40:00 Emotion and Trigger Identification 41:35 Distress Tolerance Skills 43:00 Developing Self-Esteem 44:31 Problem-Solving and Control 45:31 Defining a Meaningful Life 46:00 Managing Vulnerabilities 48:31 Building Secure Self-Attachment 51:05 Personal Empowerment and Progress Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    58 分
  • 1129 - Recognize & Address Toxic Behaviors | Creating Healthy Relationships

    1129 - Recognize & Address Toxic Behaviors | Creating Healthy Relationships
    2026/10/02
    00:00 Introduction to Toxic Relationship Behaviors 00:35 Defining Toxic Behaviors and the HEARTS Acronym 01:01 Impact of Toxic Behaviors on Health 02:34 Interpersonal and Emotional Consequences 04:34 Client Presentations and Learned Behaviors 06:22 Recurrent Patterns and Types of Toxic Behaviors 08:26 Understanding the HEARTS Framework 09:32 Assessing Relationships with Self and Others 11:13 Analyzing Behavior: Function and Reinforcement 14:25 Origins of Toxic Behaviors 16:15 Underlying Themes: Mistrust and Fear 18:53 Cognitive Distortions and Skill Deficits 19:59 Using HEARTS for Self-Assessment 22:57 Unhelpful Behaviors in Relationships 25:51 Lack of Encouragement and Its Effects 28:38 Inattentiveness in Relationships 30:13 Disrespect and Boundary Violations 32:41 Untruthfulness and Deception 34:32 Unsafe Behaviors and Conditional Regard 36:20 Heartless Behaviors: Control and Boundaries 39:48 Interventions for Control Issues 41:33 Jealousy and Competitive Threat 43:48 Addressing Jealousy: Interventions 45:54 Deception: Origins and Functions 47:45 Interventions for Deception 50:13 Self-Centeredness and Its Roots 51:28 Building Empathy and Reciprocity 53:49 Maladaptive Communication Patterns 56:36 Improving Communication Skills 57:32 Blame, Victimhood, and Superiority 59:41 Interventions for Blame and Superiority 01:00:59 Summary and Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1128 - Helping Clients Move Toward Goals with Mindfulness

    1128 - Helping Clients Move Toward Goals with Mindfulness
    2026/09/25
    00:00 Introduction to Mindfulness 00:57 What is Mindlessness 05:42 Origins of Mindlessness 10:35 Defining Mindfulness 13:52 Blocks to Awareness 17:55 Blocks to Responding 20:10 Developing Skills and Plans 22:15 Clarifying Mindfulness vs Meditation 24:09 Downregulation Skills ABCDS 25:24 Identifying the Rich and Meaningful Life 27:27 Benefits of Mindfulness 29:02 Learning Mindfulness Skills 30:45 Practicing Mindful Awareness Incrementally 31:16 Addressing Vulnerabilities in Each Life Area 32:54 Applying Skills and Reflecting 34:23 Core Mindfulness: Wise Mind 36:24 Mindfulness Reduces Inefficiency 38:55 Self and Other Awareness 40:31 Reducing Energy Waste 41:12 Balancing and Renewing Resources 42:42 Retrospective Mindfulness 43:24 Defining the End Goal 45:12 Purposeful Action 46:00 Wise Mind Skill: IDEA 48:15 Wise Mind Skill: NOD 49:41 Observe, Describe, Participate 52:36 Activity: Analyze a Scene 53:12 Five-Minute Focus 54:00 Sensory Grounding Activity 54:45 Three-Minute Thought Review 55:34 Vulnerability Observation Activity 57:02 Colors of Emotion 58:34 Relapse and Recovery Observation 59:31 Mindfulness for Balance and Relief 01:00:20 Q&A and Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • 1127 - Developing Assertiveness Skills & Improving Communication

    1127 - Developing Assertiveness Skills & Improving Communication
    2026/09/18
    Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes, provides a comprehensive guide to developing assertiveness skills, defined as the ability to clearly and respectfully state one's feelings, wants, and needs (0:34). Key Takeaways: Defining Assertiveness: It is characterized by honesty, ownership of one's needs, and mutual respect, sitting in the "sweet spot" between submissive passivity and destructive aggression (0:42, 6:42). Barriers to Assertiveness: Stress/Anxiety: The brain's natural "fight-or-flight" response can make it feel dangerous to be direct (10:51). Social Expectations: Changing your communication style may surprise or frustrate those who are accustomed to your previous behavior (14:51, 16:41). Cognitive Barriers: Past experiences or distortions like "overgeneralization" can lead people to believe that being assertive is unsafe or futile (17:21, 25:51). Core Characteristics: Assertive communication relies on appropriate eye contact, open posture, a well-modulated voice, and proper timing (28:20, 31:32). Practical Techniques: Reality Checks: Evaluate your current perceptions against objective facts (24:05). I-Statements: Use the formula: "When you do [behavior], I feel [feeling], because [effect]" to communicate needs without accusation (46:54). Constructive Feedback: Provide objective, actionable information rather than personal attacks (48:13). Win-Win Requests: State your needs and show how meeting them benefits both parties (50:28). Fogging: A method for handling criticism by acknowledging the truth in it while remaining the final judge of your actions (59:07). The presentation encourages learners to start small, perhaps practicing with safe individuals or even pets, to build confidence before applying these skills in higher-stakes environments (9:14, 55:27). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 4 分
  • 1126 - Strengthening Relationships with Healthy Boundaries

    1126 - Strengthening Relationships with Healthy Boundaries
    2026/09/11
    00:00 Introduction & Topics Covered 01:00 What Are Boundaries? 02:30 How Childhood Shapes Boundaries 04:30 Learning and Modeling Boundaries 06:30 Weak, Rigid, and Mixed Boundaries 08:30 Understanding Safe vs. Healthy Boundaries 10:00 Five Types of Boundaries 12:00 Physical and Interpersonal Boundaries 14:00 Emotional, Cognitive, and Environmental Boundaries 17:00 Setting Boundaries Based on Relationships 18:30 Benefits of Healthy Boundaries 21:00 The Four Laws of Boundaries 26:00 Choosing Who to Let In 31:00 Respecting Others’ Boundaries 37:00 Communicating and Maintaining Boundaries 41:00 Understanding Boundary Violators 44:30 Categories of People and Boundaries 47:30 Maintaining Safety Through Boundaries 49:00 Evaluating and Adjusting Boundaries 52:00 Boundary Workout Practice 55:00 Building Your Boundary Bill of Rights 56:00 Summary and Developing Trust Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 分
  • 1125 - Group Activities for Developing Self Esteem and Empowerment

    1125 - Group Activities for Developing Self Esteem and Empowerment
    2026/09/04
    00:00 Welcome & Overview of Self-Esteem/Efficacy 01:06 Why Self-Esteem and Efficacy Matter 02:39 Attachment, Self-Worth, and Social Connection 03:43 Understanding Self-Efficacy and Its Origins 05:00 Building Strengths and Addressing Obstacles 06:06 Secure Attachment & the CARES Framework 07:04 Consistency, Attention, and Responsiveness 09:07 Encouragement, Safety, and Self-Belief 10:53 Group Activity: Stations for Secure Attachment 13:12 Processing Group Activities and Lived Experience 15:45 Overcoming Feelings of Unworthiness and Powerlessness 17:32 Separating Self from Accomplishments and Past Mistakes 19:01 Exploring Core Beliefs and Self-Talk 21:03 Challenging Stereotypes and Being Mindful 22:49 Descriptor Card Activity & Mindless vs Mindful Living 25:30 Examining Autopilot Behaviors and Mainstream Messages 28:00 Teaching Mindfulness and Present Focus 29:53 Activities for Mindful Awareness and Resource Identification 34:04 Addressing Fear, Anger, and Downregulation Skills 35:51 Downregulation Toolbox & Safety Practices 41:07 Challenging Unhelpful Thoughts and Cognitive Distortions 44:44 Gamifying Self-Esteem: Activities & Ads 47:02 Effective Goal Setting in Recovery 50:09 Personal Goal Practice and Group Support 52:00 Morning and Evening Reflections for Self-Concept 54:00 Recognizing Strengths & Playing Jenga for Traits 55:04 Dialectics, Failure, and the Elephant in the Room 57:07 Addressing Hecklers and Emotional Baggage 59:00 Cultivating Your Garden: Plant Lessons for Growth 01:00:04 Lifelong Self-Esteem, Efficacy & Closing Thoughts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 時間 5 分